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So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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Monster Zero

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Anybody who hasn't told a friend they could do better based of attraction alone is probably lying. People tend to date the most attractive person they get. Let's be real now, being coy ain't changing how the world works. People like attractive people. It's goddamn biology. OP is attractive, it can be assumed he can go after attractive women, more attractive than his EX. Why is it wrong to say that
 
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Mohasus

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Guys stop talking about the OLED TV, I get it that there are a lot of virgins here, you don't have to remind me every other post.
 
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Jonneh3003

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Monster Zero said:
Anybody who hasn't told a friend they could do better based of attraction alone is probably lying. People tend to date the most attractive person they get. Let's be real now, being coy ain't changing how the world works. People like attractive people. It's goddamn biology. OP is attractive, it can be assumed he can go after attractive women, more attractive than his EX. Why is it wrong to say that
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Nothing wrong with that, it's just when people judge others solely on looks, not that I've seen it in this thread, there's far more to a person than how their features are arranged.
 
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OCD Guy

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Cyan said:
Guys. I can't believe I actually have to say this. One hundred percent not cool to post pics of this girl, especially in this context. Please think before posting.
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I just want to add that my intention was certainly not for people to start slagging her off (do you guys say that in the US??).

As much as she's pissed me off, I've been with her for 4 years.

I enjoy the rest of it, like the funny pictures about "more dicks".

Media said:
Yeah posting pics of the girl is not cool at all. OP didn't do that right?
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No, I linked to a thread where I posted some time ago it was pre-empting detective gaf. I was asked about pictures, and I specifically said you can search for them but I'm not posting them.

What ended up happenig though is someone posted a picture of a neogaf user (female) and for a short time people were saying that was my girlfriend.
 
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GreatestHits

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Monster Zero said:
Anybody who hasn't told a friend they could do better based of attraction alone is probably lying. People tend to date the most attractive person they get. Let's be real now, being coy ain't changing how the world works. People like attractive people. It's goddamn biology. OP is attractive, it can be assumed he can go after attractive women, more attractive than his EX. Why is it wrong to say that
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Maybe if you're an animal. The rest of us grow up and either learn with or without scars to appreciate some things much more than looks. It's OK to think like that when you're young though


Mohasus said:
Guys stop talking about the OLED TV, I get it that there are a lot of virgins here, you don't have to remind me every other post.
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Actually, its more like, when you've tapped enough tail, all you care about is the TV. And I think you just inadvertently announced yourself a virgin. It's nothing to be bugged about m8, life will take it's course
 
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qcf x2

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Cyan said:
Guys. I can't believe I actually have to say this. One hundred percent not cool to post pics of this girl, especially in this context. Please think before posting.
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Hate to say I told y'all so... for OP's sake if nothing else, you don't want the pics being tossed around and her no longer being anonymous coming back to haunt him.

And OP, close PoF and open up Tinder. If you listen to nothing else I say, listen to this advice! First of all, not a good idea to go looking for a relationship right after a bad breakup. What you want is some comfort pussy, and you have the perfect excuse right now. Be safe but go wild, my son. You may never again have as much of a green card to just be friends with bennys with attractive women again.
 
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DrSlek

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10/10 thread. Gonna bookmark this for later.

I think handling this very well, OP. Personally I'd hear what she has to say for herself out of morbid curiosity, and I probably wouldnt be heading straight to tinder or POF or whatever. But that's just me. Different strokes and all that.

God speed, bro.
 
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OCD Guy

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GreatestHits said:
Maybe if you're an animal. The rest of us grow up and either learn with or without scars to appreciate some things much more than looks. It's OK to think like that when you're young though
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The thing is I've been with people who I thought were really attractive but we didn't get on.

Some people would casually say "Are you mad, why would you get rid of her" but they don't get it. When you're not getting on with someone, you don't say ah but they look good so I'll put up with it.

Looks will fade eventually, even if you get botox and fillers, but someone's character generally remains.

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OP, you beautiful bastard, you better take good care of that OLED. I wish I could afford one.
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It's an anti-climax I'm afraid it's the "cheap" one. a 930V (9300 for the guys in the US of A) Still looks good, but I'd have loved a 4k one, especially a 2016 model.
 
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Seesaw15

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OCD Guy said:
The thing is I've been with people who I thought were really attractive but we didn't get on.

Some people would casually say "Are you mad, why would you get rid of her" but they don't get it. When you're not getting on with someone, you don't say ah but they look good so I'll put up with it.

Looks will fade eventually, even if you get botox and fillers, but someone's character generally remains.
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Hope you find someone with a good personality OP. Been with this thread since this morning and you seem like a level headed dude. You didn't deserve any of this. Take it easy, you'll find someone worth it.
 
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Negaduck

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Just because someone is attractive on the inside. Doesn't mean they aren't ugly on the inside (not directed towards OP's situation).

And while initially attraction can happen rather quickly, their personality reveals itself over time.
 
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MrGerbils

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OCD Guy said:
Honestly if I show you who's been messaging me you won't be impressed.

But I don't want this thread to turn into a public shaming thread, especially when I've gone through that kind of shit before.

That's why I don't really criticise people, I remember a guy in the rating thread going in hard on everyone, it just reeks of insecurity, plus most people who were posting on that thread (including me) were looking for some sort of validation, and when someone posts an off the cuff remark which might be harmless, they don't realise the impact it can have.

When I would get comments, they'd be said in jest, and for them the moment passed, but it would play on my mind for the rest of the day.
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Not only are you good looking but you're also really humble, kind, and considerate.. on top of that you're taking this well with a good sense of humor.

Good thing you found out about this girl now, and so now it's onward and upward for you. Some initial tough times coming but you'll bounce back great. Chin up, best of luck dealing with the rest of this crap.
 
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Jonneh3003

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OCD Guy said:
The thing is I've been with people who I thought were really attractive but we didn't get on.

Some people would casually say "Are you mad, why would you get rid of her" but they don't get it. When you're not getting on with someone, you don't say ah but they look good so I'll put up with it.

Looks will fade eventually, even if you get botox and fillers, but someone's character generally remains.
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Completely agree, well said and best of luck with everything.
 
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GreatestHits

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diaspora said:
It doesn't matter how attractive a person is; someone, somewhere is sick of their shit.
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And that "someone" is me. Bahahajajaja.

Really though, isn't that from a motivational poster or something?

And yeah OCD, its amazing how hotter someone is when you are into who they are
 
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17 Seconds

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MrGerbils said:
Not only are you good looking but you're also really humble, kind, and considerate.. on top of that you're taking this well with a good sense of humor.

Good thing you found out about this girl now, and so now it's onward and upward for you. Some initial tough times coming but you'll bounce back great. Chin up, best of luck dealing with the rest of this crap.
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well, he did kind of just trash the girls who are messaging him and basically called them ugly
 
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Randomizer

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OCD Guy said:
I just want to add that my intention was certainly not for people to start slagging her off (do you guys say that in the US??).

As much as she's pissed me off, I've been with her for 4 years.

I enjoy the rest of it, like the funny pictures about "more dicks".



No, I linked to a thread where I posted some time ago it was pre-empting detective gaf. I was asked about pictures, and I specifically said you can search for them but I'm not posting them.
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Since you were with her for 4 years I assume you are/were in love with her?

Hoping to not sound rude and it is obviously hard to gauge over the internet but you seem to taking this heart break extremely well. Again not to sound rude if you were deeply in love with her I'd just expect a more emotional reaction to this news.
 
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frontovik

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Just talk to her, listen, and get her point of view, then decide from there.

You claim that she gave you her iPad password, so I think she should expect that something like this could happen.
 
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qcf x2

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OCD Guy said:
The thing is I've been with people who I thought were really attractive but we didn't get on.

Some people would casually say "Are you mad, why would you get rid of her" but they don't get it. When you're not getting on with someone, you don't say ah but they look good so I'll put up with it.

Looks will fade eventually, even if you get botox and fillers, but someone's character generally remains.
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Man, ... you're a good dude. Sucks that stuff like this happens to good people, but you will be better off without a doubt. You're a quality person bruh.
 
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Retsudo

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OCD Guy said:
The thing is I've been with people who I thought were really attractive but we didn't get on.

Some people would casually say "Are you mad, why would you get rid of her" but they don't get it. When you're not getting on with someone, you don't say ah but they look good so I'll put up with it.

Looks will fade eventually, even if you get botox and fillers, but someone's character generally remains.
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Indeed Op. Looks certainly help, but if the rest is trash shit wont last.
At the end of the day, when we grow old and toothless looks wont matter for shit.
 
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Not

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Again, again, again, OP: constant honesty. Otherwise the feelings get hurt out of nowhere. Best of luck, for real.

Not's Final Post Count: too damn high :(
 
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