Pinko Marx
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Omg this thread is amazing.
And thus why the term friend zone can be so negative. The assumption she "enjoys the free attention" is what leads to people like OP thinking friend zone is a real situation.
So we've gone from not wanting a relationship until she gets her career going, to waiting until she has a career and is financially secure, and I guess the next step is getting into some practice relationships with other men so she can make her mistakes there and avoid hurting you with her relationship inexperience.
Eventually she will not want to date you until she's married with three kids. Or perhaps in another life...
Does it sound like I'm forever friend zoned? We've been together for 3 months, and it's only getting stronger, it feels like. I like to dwell on the possibility that she wants to be with me when we get her career going, but I needed to see what others think.
LOL What the hell is this still doing on first page.
Alright, here's the update. I listened to the GOOD advice about asking her again. I had the chance to as we went out for dinner after working with her most of the afternoon. I brought up the time I asked her out and asked if her feelings changed.
She said yes. She never thought about relationships seriously until she felt my dedication towards helping her with her life. She got to know me a lot better since she turned me down, and she wants me to be in a relationship, however, she doesn't feel confident in herself when it comes to a relationship where we would live with each other if she isn't making good income.
I told her that her money doesn't matter me, and that I'm going to help her no matter what kind of relationship we're in. She's still not comfortable being unable to share in the expenses, but she really likes our time together because it's giving her a lot of confidence and morale to work hard, so I told her that we can stay the course and keep doing what we're doing.
I guess I shouldn't say I'm not interested in a relationship with her, rather I should just say I stopped thinking about it in order to focus on helping her. Seems like our relationship built anyway, and I'm pretty happy with how things are right now. I don't think asking really made any difference, but it was nice to know.
Anyway, you funny gaffers with some good advice and mostly bad advice, you all made an interesting thread out of this situation. Keep it up.
First I was like Op runnnn, but now I am like Girl runnnn
I know several people who have one and who've engaged in one. I have a couple.Do you give her money?
Also I've never heard of a friendship where you hold hands and tell each other you love each other - granted I've been out of dating for 10 years ....
I'm guessing in real life whoever this is based on is someone he's barely spoken and has been leering at for months
buy her a dozen roses and text her the most beautiful poem you can come up with.
Also I've never heard of a friendship where you hold hands and tell each other you love each other
lol holy shit, you guys are way into this feminism thing and trolling that there's really nothing to be gained here anymore.
Romance in Persona is so god-fucking-awful. It's the kind of shit that the OP seems to be buying into. It creates this perception that you can get the girl you want by just being there for her until she discovers that she has cared for you in an intimate way all along.
I'm guessing in real life whoever this is based on is someone he's barely spoken and has been leering at for months
Yeah...someone posted the Doc Rivers gif a while back (maybe on the first page) but it literally can't be posted enough.This fucking thread. This fucking thread.
I was reading it last night. Wake up, and it just keeps getting weirder and weirder.
So what are the odds the update is actually true?
So what are the odds the update is actually true?
Stop doxing the OP
Men rights activist.What does "MRA" means? English is not my first language
As for the OP, after seeing your updates, its clear to me that you are just trying to play the "cool guy" who is messing with GAF, after receiving a overwhelming number of good advice that you should move on.
I truly hope you dont keep this up, because in the end when this girl find a boyfriend, you will hurt like hell, save yourself from this before it happens buddy.
Be well
OP: "Would you want to go out with me?"
Her: "I just don't think I'm in a place to be the perfect wife, you know?"
Please don't be this guy
What does "MRA" means? English is not my first language
As for the OP, after seeing your updates, its clear to me that you are just trying to play the "cool guy" who is messing with GAF, after receiving a overwhelming number of good advice that you should move on.
I truly hope you dont keep this up, because in the end when this girl find a boyfriend, you will hurt like hell, save yourself from this before it happens buddy.
Be well
A girl tried to say some shit like this to me once, we ain't friends no more for a reasonPlease don't be this guy
STOP FUCKIN LYIN
DeadassI feel sorry for the girl
Please don't be this guy