Mr. Giggles
Member
Like most of us, my time spent gaming has decreased more and more due to new responsibilities and commitments making its way into my life:
> Work
> Relationships
> New familial obligations
At first, I felt bad, my backlog which I prided myself on never having started and grew, from having 0 games to now 4 games. But then, reading some threads here on GAF I realized this was just part of growing up and it calmed me down a bit.
But, there was a fourth reason that didn't strike me until I became a member here on GAF and as you might have guessed from the title, it was the community - attitudes of gamers mostly.
Now don't get me wrong, I like the community on GAF you guys are hilarious what with the tags, joke threads and masters of GIF making plus given the moderation, it's MUCH less toxic to read than lots of other gaming forums. Additionally, I know gamers come from a broad spectrum of beliefs and morals, thus I have find myself generalizing a diverse bunch but the one thing I think is whats pushing me away from gaming is the somewhat childish behavior inherent with our hobby:
> The hyperbole - everything is either the GOAT or the WOAT
> The need/want to constantly have something the other has - X console does this therefore Y console should also do it
> The whole console warrior mentality - and its astounding ability to survive from one generation of gamers to the next
> What gamergate has evolved to
> The suit worship
> The worrying attitude/acceptance towards representations of women and underage girls in video games
I understand that gaming is a hobby applicable to any age, beliefs and backgrounds thus some of it is to be expected also that some of what I listed above is not exclusive to gaming (android fans vs apple fans etc) but I feel its still killing my love for the hobby
*sigh*
Maybe its just me, perhaps I've become bitter, jaded and more prudish with age, yelling at the clouds and what not... but I feel less and less inclined to engage in discussion anymore because its the same old battles on the same old hills
Anyone else?
> Work
> Relationships
> New familial obligations
At first, I felt bad, my backlog which I prided myself on never having started and grew, from having 0 games to now 4 games. But then, reading some threads here on GAF I realized this was just part of growing up and it calmed me down a bit.
But, there was a fourth reason that didn't strike me until I became a member here on GAF and as you might have guessed from the title, it was the community - attitudes of gamers mostly.
Now don't get me wrong, I like the community on GAF you guys are hilarious what with the tags, joke threads and masters of GIF making plus given the moderation, it's MUCH less toxic to read than lots of other gaming forums. Additionally, I know gamers come from a broad spectrum of beliefs and morals, thus I have find myself generalizing a diverse bunch but the one thing I think is whats pushing me away from gaming is the somewhat childish behavior inherent with our hobby:
> The hyperbole - everything is either the GOAT or the WOAT
> The need/want to constantly have something the other has - X console does this therefore Y console should also do it
> The whole console warrior mentality - and its astounding ability to survive from one generation of gamers to the next
> What gamergate has evolved to
> The suit worship
> The worrying attitude/acceptance towards representations of women and underage girls in video games
I understand that gaming is a hobby applicable to any age, beliefs and backgrounds thus some of it is to be expected also that some of what I listed above is not exclusive to gaming (android fans vs apple fans etc) but I feel its still killing my love for the hobby
*sigh*
Maybe its just me, perhaps I've become bitter, jaded and more prudish with age, yelling at the clouds and what not... but I feel less and less inclined to engage in discussion anymore because its the same old battles on the same old hills
Anyone else?