"Hey," March 12
"Hey," April 25
"Hey," June 1
"Hey," July 25
??? Why don't guys get the hint? In what world is persistence even considered attractive? I've talked to a bunch of my girl friends and guys do this to them too. I just don't get it. Like what is going through their mind exactly? Help me understand.
EDIT: This is from dating sites / dating apps if that wasn't clear.
EDIT Part 2: I'm a guy lmao. And I think people are kind of getting hung up on the whole "hey" thing. The issue isn't the boring message (though it can play a part), the issue is that someone will constantly message me even when I've shown no interest. And those dates are made up btw, I've had guys message me 6-7 times in a day. Some wait a few weeks or months, but if I haven't responded after the 4th message... I'm not gonna sleep with you sorry bb.
"Hey," April 25
"Hey," June 1
"Hey," July 25
??? Why don't guys get the hint? In what world is persistence even considered attractive? I've talked to a bunch of my girl friends and guys do this to them too. I just don't get it. Like what is going through their mind exactly? Help me understand.
EDIT: This is from dating sites / dating apps if that wasn't clear.
EDIT Part 2: I'm a guy lmao. And I think people are kind of getting hung up on the whole "hey" thing. The issue isn't the boring message (though it can play a part), the issue is that someone will constantly message me even when I've shown no interest. And those dates are made up btw, I've had guys message me 6-7 times in a day. Some wait a few weeks or months, but if I haven't responded after the 4th message... I'm not gonna sleep with you sorry bb.