I've mentioned this before but my parents were both kinda anti white people when I was growing up. My dad's first wife was white and 2 of my siblings as a result of that marriage are half white and my own mom while claiming black looks pretty indistinguishably white (or at least "foreign" as people have described her a few times). They'd say stuff like "don't bring home any devils" or just pretty much steer me away from white people in general. I never paid it any mind. I've always been attracted to people that look familiar to me so, sorry mom and pop. They were never really hard core though. I never had any serious reservations about bringing someone white home (or maybe I just gave zero fucks). My mom had a heart to heart with me once years ago saying essentially "if all black men go for anything but black women then who is there for black women?" So maybe that's where her don't bring home devils comments were coming from. This is mostly in the past though. Between me and my siblings behavior I think they realize we're gonna do what we want and there's a good chance that means not black so they've not really openly said stuff like that in a while.
Also my dad is a conspiracy theorist so of course those goddamn Jews are always controlling our minds through the media.
So I guess all I can offer to the op is grow thicker skin, give less fucks, and leave when you can. I respectfully listened to shit for years and now my dad doesn't feel the same way about gay people as he used to. He came around in his own time as did I.
Also my dad is a conspiracy theorist so of course those goddamn Jews are always controlling our minds through the media.
So I guess all I can offer to the op is grow thicker skin, give less fucks, and leave when you can. I respectfully listened to shit for years and now my dad doesn't feel the same way about gay people as he used to. He came around in his own time as did I.