Inclusion of headsets will be a game changer for PSN in both good ways and bad. Enjoy this last final month in your fortress of solitude before the floodgates are opened. You will soon get to enjoy sharing your lobbies with asshole/racist mouth breathers just like everyone else no XBL Gold.
Greatness awaits.
There's assholes anywhere. One console doesn't attract more than the other. What's funny is I've met great gaming friends over XBL, and of course, have met bad people not working for the team, but far more positive experiences.