But... It is not. Obviously there are still good animes being made (no one in their right mind would claim otherwise), but good anime that isn't filled with stupid fanservice, moe or other gross stuff have become quite rare. Also, unfortunately when developers decide to make a game that is somewhat inspired by anime, they decide to pick the worst things about anime instead of the best ones. Just take a look at games like Fire Emblem Awakening, Senran Kagura, etc.
A game being anime-like or a game having an anime adaptation aren't bad things by default, but like you or not, there are plenty of reasons to be worried when a game is getting an anime adaptation or when a developer say a game will be inspired by anime.