I never said anyone in this thread said it was ok.
I've heard people of all shades on American news use various slur words when discussing issues (Let's not even get into comedians). Yet for some reason when it comes to nigger, only negros seem to get a pass to say it. Maybe I don't watch enough American news these days but I couldn't tell the last time if ever, I heard someone say "the k-word", "the c-word", etc. (not saying definitively that they aren't said)
Re: Cracker: If people are going to try and deem words "bad" there shouldn't be some scale that says one is worse than another. A slur is a slur is a slur.
For all we know, the "we" he was referencing may not have been "white people" but reporters in general. ie Unless I missed him stating otherwise.
Would 3walking on egg shells been better, clearly yes; he shouldn't have had to though.
The world isn't level.
I quoted to agree with him, then went on my "rant". Said "rant" was not birthed nor intended to run parallel with the "weird" post I quoted.
Plenty of people (not singling out GAFers) think black racist behavior is fine, as a matter of fact many don't consider it racist.
I highly doubt the reaction would have been the same in your cracker scenario.
GreedZen is waiting on a GAF reporter to ask my skin tone so they can write GreedZen who is insert tone here said blah.
When you hear the term "cracker" on the news, you could be on your phone not paying attention, hear the word but not register anything in your brain and keep on playing with your phone.
A cracker is a biscuit. The term was created in English language to talk about biscuits. A relatively tiny population of Earth use the word to mean something different.
When (however hugely unlikely) you ever hear the term "nigger" on the news, there's only ever one reason why it would ever happen. Not describing a biscuit. Theres a hint for you.
According to the people who adopted the term, a "nigger" is someone they really really don't like. Like casually and institutionally kill, rape, lynch, hang, bite the kerb, falsely imprison, enslave, beat with sticks/whips, don't let them in out shops, sit at the back of the bus, drink from a different water fountain, shit in a different toilet, enter theatres at the "Negros entrance", how dare you call yourself an equal on this earth, total segregation kind of don't like.
To use the phrase "nigger" is to relate to that history. To call a person a "Nigger" with malice is to be part of that history. Certain black people using the term casually amongst themselves is a wilful ignorance of that history, de-powering it in a sense and using it to mean whatever they deem it to mean. Does NOT mean all black people agree with them using it as such. Even if most black people don't get up in arms about other black people using it, most would not find it acceptable in their own home if their sons or daughters called them it.
There aren't many racial slurs out there that have that sheer amount of violence, pain and hatred behind them. Especially recent enough that there are still people alive that lived through it, with remnants of it however small still actually affecting them and their children/grandchildren to this day.
"Cracker" is a slur for sure, but if you ask what it means to people when they hear it, will they ever be forced to think about national atrocities, specific not so long ago events in history that would make them cry if they heard first hand stories, the way they have to make a conscious effort to shy away from a negative stereo type every time they walk into a store or open their mouths? Most probably not. Theres no horrible background that most white person could really relate to if they heard it or were called it.
"You idiot" is an insult. "You filthy cunt whore" is an insult. Just because both are insults doesn't mean their meanings or ability to cause certain intensity of hurt are the same.
And sure, maybe you hear a guy calling his wife a "filthy cunt whore" all the time and they behave like its nothing. So i guess that means youd call gis wife that if you saw her in the street? And then go home and start calling your wife that?
Nope. Because it has a meaning. Whether people want to use it in their oen circles is their own specific businessbusiness and obviously based on a level of relationship, trust and connection.
And again, your rant didn't really add much to the discussion other than say "but what about black racism?". Completely irrelevant to the actual discussion.