Then don't play this particular game. If you're worried that people will judge you negatively because there are large breasts on a character, and that negative judgement upsets you, avoid it. Personally, I'd imagine those same people will probably judge you for enjoying the act of hunting a fictional 'monster', but I could well be wrong.Why is everytime someone complains about an element of the game, the first response is don't play it? It's perfectly normal to bitch about specific elements of a game you find faulty, especially when the rest looks so good. I didn't like the covenant system in Dark Souls, doesn't mean the game wasn't fantastic. I think the combat is garbage in Skyrim, still fun entertainment though.
I don't need a game to be realistic or PC, not at all. However, there is a big difference when talking about violence in video games between games like Manhunt vs Arkham Asylum. Just like there is a difference between making the female characters attractive, vs having their super attack being shooting milk. Yes, it may be all a spectrum of the same thing, but just because I complain when someone is setting the dial to 10, doesn't mean I'm not allowed to play the game or that I'm not allowed to not complain if a game has the dial set at 6.
Look, all I'm asking for is that if someone walks by me playing a game. I don't want to be ashamed socially, morally, or ethically about what's on the screen. If the character art for the Sorceress is up on my big screen, I would be. If I was fighting Rathalos in Monster Hunter, I wouldn't be. It's not because I'm some white knight or anything like that. I'm ashamed of it intellectually, it insults my intelligence and my dignity that someone thinks "this is what appeals to the gamer demographic". I'm not some champion of Feminism or Peace, I just want to have a hobby I can play in the living room and not be ashamed of.
It's the same with film, TV, music, and pretty much everything else. Play things you feel comfortable playing, avoid things that make you feel ashamed. Watch the things you feel comfortable watching, avoid the things you don't.
I feel bad for all the people with judgemental partners. I'd hate to think that my missus would avoid consuming certain media in case I disapproved of it.