As for the staggered release, in that they want to get it on the platform but cannot afford to, this is the quote from Phil:
"If there's a developer who's building a game and they just can't get the game done for both platforms - cool. We'll take a staggered release. We've done it before, and we work with them on that."
For something that they have a deal with Sony, for example, where they cannot do an XB1 version for either 6 months - 1 year after initial release, this was his quote:
"If another platform does a deal with you as a developer to build an exclusive version of your game for them, and you can't ship on my platform for a year, when the game comes out in a year let's just work together to make it special in some way. People complained about that, but you did a deal with somebody else and you got paid for it and I'm happy - we do those same deals, so I'm not knocking you."
Now, I am not the smartest man on the planet. However, I do not think you need to be in order to see what they are talking about. Can't afford release on both at launch, fine. Let use know and we will work with you to help where we can.
If you got paid by Sony to make a game for their platform, then when you want to release on our platform, let us help you to get something new in that game for our fans. I see this as good business, whether it is MS or Sony. If I was just a PS4 owner, I would want the same thing. Does not have to be major, some extra skins, DLC content added in to that platforms initial release. Just something is all I ask for.