look. i am getting older and getting over some self confidence issues. i could tell you about why looks or whatever are really not important, truth is that i have never tought of myself as an overly goodlooking guy and that type of stuff. truth is also, that however you look has nothing to do with how happy you are in your life. Everyone is in the same mess and carries inner demons. it may help with circumstantial stuff, but not in other regards. Owen Willson, case in point. my best attribute is that i am very positive, and i mature everyday into the type of person i wanna become, flaws and all. people relate to attitude, know this. if you dont love and know yourself then u cant love anyone and cant even fathom anyone loving you. thats the way it goes. so i dont wanna preach, cause im no one to do so, but if i had to say to anyone the simplest way to find happiness is learn to love oneself