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Racism caught on tape (NSFW) for starting car : White woman +kids vs Black male

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Nephtis

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What the hell is wrong with you?

She calls him a "nasty fucking nigger" and you defend her?

SMH

I know right? Then the bit about heartfelt apologies over coffee... lol. Dude's gotta be trolling.


Also, I love how your avatar changes once you mouse over the tag. had to reload the page several times to make sure I wasn't seeing things, haha
 

Derwind

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Okay. Judge away folks. Get your pitch forks out.

On a personal level. I'd like to see them getting a coffee together and work out their differences with some heart felt apologies and forgiveness.

Work there differences out with thrown coffee and the words "racist nigger" screamed out.

I think the poor guys gone through enough no?
 

MormaPope

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Not really. A black kid last year got killed walking home from a store at night and plenty of people still didn't think anyone should judge the man for it..........

I'd say that's 50/50 at best. Racists may of won their own odd and shitty victory, but plenty of people were furious over what happened and how botched the case was overall.
 

Suen

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Okay. Judge away folks. Get your pitch forks out.

On a personal level. I'd like to see them getting a coffee together and work out their differences with some heart felt apologies and forgiveness.
wtf? Why should he apologize? And aren't you the same guy who defended suicide bombers? Better not take anything you say seriously.
 
She makes it look like she is over protective of her (maybe really scared) children but neglects them like mentioned before on a parking lot. Her swearing and insulting is geared towards the "enemy" race which is of course not justified. What I really wonder would it be any different or "less" bad if she insulted the guys height, intelligence or religion instead of his race? I don't get the whole "n-word" > other insults - it is a racist remark but thats it unless I am missing something.

i think attacking religion or ethnicity is probably the worst. i don't know why but it just seems more prejudiced than any other insult.
 

cyberheater

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Work there differences out with thrown coffee and the words "racist nigger" screamed out.

I think the poor guys gone through enough no?

I like to believe that we are slowly moving towards a more tolerant world where folks are able to work this issues out. That is my hope for humanity.
 

cyberheater

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wtf? Why should he apologize? And aren't you the same guy who defended suicide bombers? Better not take anything you say seriously.

How said he should apologise.

And where have I ever defended suicide bombers. I'm a man of peace.
 

Ponn

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I'd say that's 50/50 at best. Racists may of won their own odd and shitty victory, but plenty of people were furious over what happened and how botched the case was overall.

And then barely a year later another man shot a black kid dead for playing his music to loud in a gas station parking lot. He actually ends up only getting charged for missing some of his shots.
 
Actually I find that heat of the moment situations are often much more reflective of how people really feel and think. You don't have the luxury to parse your words to fit how you want to be portrayed.

Quoting this out of agreement. When I'm really angry I don't just start throwing out horrid viewpoints I don't support at all.
 

Wazzy

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I know right? Then the bit about heartfelt apologies over coffee... lol. Dude's gotta be trolling.


Also, I love how your avatar changes once you mouse over the tag. had to reload the page several times to make sure I wasn't seeing things, haha
Haha yeah It's thrown a couple people off when they scroll past it. :p
I like to believe that we are slowly moving towards a more tolerant world where folks are able to work this issues out. That is my hope for humanity.

This isn't some little issue where you can talk it over and work things out.

She called him a nigger multiple times in front of her children, threatened to assault him and have him killed AND threatened to throw her coffee at him.

You really think that's something you just talk over?
 

V_Arnold

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There are several facts we gather from the video and you had appeared to dismiss them.

Honestly, you seem to not draw a paralell between this behavior and ANY type of "not too mentally dumb an heavily frustrated people react to unknown situations" escalations. I would say that there is a *very* high chance that if a fat man would have "scared her kids" with the car sound or whatever, she would have come and went for the same tirade, replacing the n-word with "fatass", and that would have been that. Many who condemn her now would maybe get a shameful laugh out of her behavior, or even blame the "fattie", and that would be it.

Yet, it is not racism or fat-shaming that is the main motivator behind moves like this, but their general lifestyle and way of thinking, unability to control the egos when anything unexpected happens.

Quoting this out of agreement. When I'm really angry I don't just start throwing out horrid viewpoints I don't support at all.

Imho, this is bullshit. You can have any proper, insanely loving dog to attack you if you push his strings enough. It is a scientifically demonstrated fact that humans are no different when it comes to degrading to states like that, should they feel threatened enough. The question is: what mental health is she working with in her everyday life that lets her jump on someone so easily? And "racism, inhumane shit" does not solve this. Getting professional help could.
 

MormaPope

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i think attacking religion or ethnicity is probably the worst. i don't know why but it just seems more prejudiced than any other insult.

It also shows a lack of character and wit.

Of course saying racist shit is the easiest and most fucked up way to make somebody feel bad or hurt, or to "end" an argument. It takes somebody who is intelligent to deconstruct something with logic and context.

The woman in this video though is a lost cause when it comes to that. Getting furious over somebody starting their car and scaring kids (if that is even true) is on some mentally fucked shit.
 

Derp1na

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Haha yeah It's thrown a couple people off when they scroll past it. :p


This isn't some little issue where you can talk it over and work things out.

She called him a nigger multiple times in front of her children, threatened to assault him and have him killed AND threatened to throw her coffee at him.

You really think that's something you just talk over?

She also said her husband who "hates niggers too" will kill him.

Cyberheater has been banned!
 

Derwind

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I like to believe that we are slowly moving towards a more tolerant world where folks are able to work this issues out. That is my hope for humanity.

Yeah but a victim has a right to be cautious in that world. Thats all I'm saying.

What she needs is some therapy and big ol' cup of perspec shut your dumb ass up. Yep.
 
Not really. A black kid last year got killed walking home from a store at night and plenty of people still didn't think anyone should judge the man for it..........

Didn't the kid attack the person before he got killed? Or was it really just "just walking at night and out of nowhere shot dead"
 

Coreda

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Not really. A black kid last year got killed walking home from a store at night and plenty of people still didn't think anyone should judge the man for it..........

But we can't judge the killer though, we don't know enough about his life and the situation to know if the black kid did something worthy of being killed...

He could have been a loving, caring man that just had a bad day is all. When will people get over their irrational judgments to see the good in everyone and not hold them accountable for their actions. smh.

/s
 

MormaPope

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And then barely a year later another man shot a black kid dead for playing his music to loud in a gas station parking lot. He actually ends up only getting charged for missing some of his shots.

Didn't even hear of that.

Racism in the United States is such a mess, feels hopeless.
 

Chariot

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Baby Milo

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Her husbands a cop and he hates "niggers" to huh? hopefully someone knows these people so we can roll them outta there

props to homey for bumping Illmatic and exposing this chick
 

Dram

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And then barely a year later another man shot a black kid dead for playing his music to loud in a gas station parking lot. He actually ends up only getting charged for missing some of his shots.
I still wonder if he would have been found not guilty if he had killed all of the kids in the car?
 

Derp1na

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Yup. "Fuck you you Islamic fuck, I hate fucking Muslims and my husband does too" would be totally okay.

No, it wouldn't. There are aspects of religion that are open to criticism, just like there are aspects of my philosophy that are open to criticism.
 
Imho, this is bullshit. You can have any proper, insanely loving dog to attack you if you push his strings enough. It is a scientifically demonstrated fact that humans are no different when it comes to degrading to states like that, should they feel threatened enough. The question is: what mental health is she working with in her everyday life that lets her jump on someone so easily? And "racism, inhumane shit" does not solve this. Getting professional help could.

I don't see how this relates to what I said.
 
lol rip cyberheater
Obliterated.

Now I'm always the first one to say there's two sides to every story. Rushing to judgement after only getting one side will oftentimes make you look like an idiot in the end.

In this case though he stated what happened, and she stated the exact same thing. He started his vehicle and the kids got scared and she went crazy.
 
People say awful things when they are upset and are in protect mode.

We don't have back story to this. She says he frightened her kids. We don't know what happened.
Yeah..ok.
I agree it's not a nice response. It's horrible hearing racist stuff. But people will use whatever language they can summon to be as hurtful as possible when they are in a verbal attack mode. It's not pretty but[/b] it is human nature.

What I'm saying is that clearly the racist comments are wrong but we don't know the full story here. Easy to judge when we're sitting in our seats.
We all got butts..maybe she should keep her pants up and stop showing her ass..unless she be stripping for the cops.
What a disgusting comment.

You don't know her. You don't know anything about her. You're seeing a tiny distorted fragment of her life captured on film compared to the entirety of her existence.
You don't know the people she has loved. The friends she has helped. The sacrifices she's made to raise to kids. You don't know any of that.
http://youtu.be/1Nvdh0FMzr0

Yeah..heat of the moment. You don't know how her comments affected him/her! You seem more upset about the comment, than the shit this ignorant idiot spewed..which is why I'm going to give you a..

10/10..good stuff!!!

Oh I'm too late..lol.
 

Karkador

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Okay. Judge away folks. Get your pitch forks out.

On a personal level. I'd like to see them getting a coffee together and work out their differences with some heart felt apologies and forgiveness.

She actually did try sharing her coffee with him, but he closed his window. I mean, how are you going to let love and forgiveness wash over you if you callously reject it like that?
 

LaNaranja

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Okay. Judge away folks. Get your pitch forks out.

On a personal level. I'd like to see them getting a coffee together and work out their differences with some heart felt apologies and forgiveness.

As a mediator, I would love to see that too. But this lady is clearly beyond mediation. She needs a therapist.
 

siddhu33

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The black guy was lucky that he recorded it all...if he hadn't, I'm sure this woman would have accused him of something and got him into trouble with the police...
 

Juicy Bob

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That man has incredible patience and self-control to have remained so calm and cool while facing a torrent of abuse and ignorance like that.

I can't even begin to imagine how it must feel to be on the receiving end of something like that.
 
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