I don't want to speak for women, but there probably should be more and better suited pornographic content for them.
Japan supply those things too. Comics, books and games about hot guys. There is a street in Japan dedicated to getting women aroused with sexualized digital men.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Otome_Road
But you don't see the West get annoyed by this, I wonder why? Why is sexualizing digital men not a problem? Or video games where the goal is to have gay men have sex with each other, with the target audience being straight women and not gay men.
I know of women who play these games. They are normal functional members of society. They just like hot fictitious guys.
To assume that men are not sexualised is entirely false. They are just allowed because most real life men are not offended by it. It's not my problem, it doesn't affect me, I don't see the need to argue that women should be chastised for what they do in private.
So why is it that the reverse is often not true?
Let each person, no matter the gender or orientation, to enjoy what they like in the privacy of their homes with digital people who are not real.