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Am I in the forever friend zone?

Quixzlizx

Member
*clicks on Leeness' name*

*wipes a tear*

*clicks Ignore Leeness*

It's the only way to deal with my pain. TAKE NOTES OP!!!!!!!!!!

I'm joking... totally joking... haha.... :p

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Leeness

Member
Oh, yeah! That Dating OT on GAF is pretty awesome. I think Gaiages runs it. OP should've really just ran there with this situation.

But hey. Still glad this thread exists. Fun times and there actually is some good advice here.

Haha at least people in there know I'm weird and don't date and know what's up with me. -shrug-
 

Mediking

Member
Haha at least people in there know I'm weird and don't date and know what's up with me. -shrug-

Yup. I remember you from the Dating OT. That's why I joked about asking if you wanted my opinion earlier. I already knew your situation. I really was joking.

But I got a feeling that some are gonna think I was being fully serious earlier....
 

_Ryo_

Member
It is a good friendship! It has clear boundaries, I egg him on to date, he knows I don't date at all, and we share a lot. I hope he agrees, but I think we became really good friends off of GAF, so it's nice to find a good friend :)

I'm sorry yours didn't work out :(

Thank you, kindly, but its alright cuz it was a real complicated situation that caused years of fustration for us both, so it was definitely for the best.

BTW, I also dont "date". Well, that is to say I am not currently interested in monogamous relationship at all.

Also, yes, I'm sure he does indeed agree. Like having someone you can be honest and open with, where all sides are mutually respected and understood is a very good thing.
 

Leeness

Member
Yup. I remember you from the Dating OT. That's why I joked about asking if you wanted my opinion earlier. I already knew your situation. I really was joking.

But I got a feeling that some are gonna think I was being fully serious earlier....

GAF is silly haha. And I know you were joking 🙃

Thank you, kindly, but its alright cuz it was a real complicated situation that caused years of fustration for us both, so it was definitely for the best.

BTW, I also dont "date". Well, that is to say I am not currently interested in monogamous relationship at all.

Also, yes, I'm sure he does indeed agree. Like having someone you can be honest and open with, where all sides are mutually respected and understood is a very good thing.

That's too bad, but it sounds like it was for the best.

I will never date. Just how I am :)

Yes! It is a good thing.
 

gaiages

Banned
Oh, yeah! That Dating OT on GAF is pretty awesome. I think Gaiages runs it. OP should've really just ran there with this situation.

But hey. Still glad this thread exists. Fun times and there actually is some good advice here.

We would have been a lot meaner.

At least in the main Off Topic more people got cringes/laughs out of it :p

Yup. I remember you from the Dating OT. That's why I joked about asking if you wanted my opinion earlier. I already knew your situation. I really was joking.

But I got a feeling that some are gonna think I was being fully serious earlier....

Mediking it's okay you can admit your feelings, all we want is to watch you crash and burn your happiness :)
 

Salamando

Member
Lol I do this (kind of) with someone on GAF, except neither of us are interested in each other and I just want opinions ��

How can I find someone like this? None of my friends have style, my sisters will never compliment my appearance, and I wouldn't ask my friend (who's an ex) for "help" in clothes. I just wanna know if clothes look good on me sometimes... Edit: should also mention, I'm a guy with shit fashion sense myself
 

_Ryo_

Member
Yup. I remember you from the Dating OT. That's why I joked about asking if you wanted my opinion earlier. I already knew your situation. I really was joking.

But I got a feeling that some are gonna think I was being fully serious earlier....

Dont worry, I know you weren't serious. You have eyes only for Tae Tekami.


How can I find someone like this? None of my friends have style, my sisters will never compliment my appearance, and I wouldn't ask my friend (who's an ex) for "help" in clothes. I just wanna know if clothes look good on me sometimes...

Very smart to not want this.
 

HotHamBoy

Member
who are we laughing at, john or jess?

We aren't laughing. I just think if I'm John and my GF is sending pics of herself in lingerie to other dudes that's kinda fucked up.

This probably isn't the first time that the guy has revealed his feelings towards the girl, which makes it extra fucked up for her to do that. To do that to mystery responding guy and to John.

Surely she has better options for opinions.

THAT SAID.

I just realized that this message is taken out of context and it's entirely possible that the guy is being funny. Maybe the guy is a girl, or maybe the guy is a gay man. Or hell, maybe he's just a straight male friend who is just crackin jokes.

We don't know any of this and I kind of feel stupid, tbh.

Her response of "haha shutup" now makes me think that the "guy" is legit being a smartass.
 
How can I find someone like this? None of my friends have style, my sisters will never compliment my appearance, and I wouldn't ask my friend (who's an ex) for "help" in clothes. I just wanna know if clothes look good on me sometimes...

Become friends with a woman that has style?
 

Leeness

Member
How can I find someone like this? None of my friends have style, my sisters will never compliment my appearance, and I wouldn't ask my friend (who's an ex) for "help" in clothes. I just wanna know if clothes look good on me sometimes... Edit: should also mention, I'm a guy with shit fashion sense myself

Become friends with a woman that has style?

I have no style. I ask people who do have style if I look like shit or not haha.
 

jesu

Member
We aren't laughing. I just think if I'm John and my GF is sending pics of herself in lingerie to other dudes that's kinda fucked up.

This probably isn't the first time that Jess has revealed his feelings towards the girl, which makes it extra fucked up for her to do that. To do that to Jess and to John.

Surely she has better options for opinions.

THAT SAID.

I just realized that this message is taken out of context and it's entirely possible that Jess is being funny. Maybe Jess is a girl, or maybe Jess is a gay man. Or hell, maybe Jess is a straight make friend who is just crackin jokes.

We don't know any of this and I kind of feel stupid, tbh.

Jess isn't the lingerie girl?
 

Draper

Member
I feel like I have no sense of style when it comes to manscaping.

Anyone here mind if I send them pictures of my junk?
 

Chumley

Banned
I literally can't wrap my head around the idea of sending lingerie pics to a guy who's dating someone else and thinking it's completely platonic, unless he's gay.
 

Iolo

Member
Haha you guys. He's very aware that I don't date, and he's currently dating someone (who he may be ~falling fooooor~) and tells me all about his dating adventures. :D

question, does the girl know you're sending her boyfriend pictures of yourself in lingerie to "get opinions", or...
 

Iolo

Member
I feel like I have no sense of style when it comes to manscaping.

Anyone here mind if I send them pictures of my junk?

There was a guy like 20 pages ago advising the OP to immediately escalate to sending unsolicited dick pics, so maybe try that guy.
 

Salamando

Member
question, does the girl know you're sending her boyfriend pictures of yourself in lingerie to "get opinions", or...

Knowing what I do about Leeness, I half-expect she's the one getting sent pics of a guy asking "How do I look in these pics for my date with X tonight?"
 

gdt

Member
This thread is reaching the cringe singularity, especially with Leeness now involved lmao. Keep the cringe pics coming!
 

BlueTsunami

there is joy in sucking dick
People are really weird in here. I dunno.

Legit though, I bought a new bra. I sent a pic (shoulders to just the top of my stomach, not some kind of "sexy posting") to my girl friend and my guy friend, asked for opinion on the fit. They're not lewd in any way. Both said it fit fine. The end.

That's entirely possible

But for a large portion of the populace this sort of interaction can be misconstrued, hence the relatability and the amount of memes posted in this thread. Intentional, and not.

Basically, life is suffering
 

Whompa02

Member
Are you trying to somehow be in such an intensely deep friend zone that you somehow end up going all around the world and dating on the other side?

Spoiler alert: it doesn't work that way.

Move on. You have absolutely no hope of dating this girl.
 

gdt

Member
🙄 I'm done posting now that I've explained myself. You guys are seriously over the top.

No way, sorry I wasn't attacking you. I meant how other posters are making it weird for you, in keeping with the cringe levels of this thread.
 
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