If the game is a great game, it's a great game. If it's a bad game, it's a bad game. Resolution shouldn't change that. It's almost like saying you can't enjoy yourself with an amazing game on a console if there's a pc out there that's running the game at a more impressive level. Well, apply that same logic to these two consoles. PS4 having the better version shouldn't affect anybody's enjoyment of a great game, so long as the xbox one version isn't somehow suffering from bad performance.
Edit:: I see no reason why phil would somehow be lying. We find out pretty damn soon regardless. If we can't use the system OS properly, we can't even start up games, suspend and resume games, or use any of the other features of the system. It's no surprise Phil Spence stopped responding to the guy. He already said all he needed to. Everything else is just crazy.