SamuelSupreme
Banned
GAF, Im heated right now so my perspective may be a bit fucked up right now so please call me out if I'm being an ass.
The last 24hours quite stressful for me. Im coming up on my 1 year anniversary at work. I have a single paid vacation day left that Ill lose on Nov 9. Monday was supposed to be my day off but someone called in sick so I had to come in no biggie Ill just take it on Tuesday.
When I get home at 5, I see that theres a problem with my internet and after 3 hours I get it resolved. I then get a message from my boss informing me of a interview with head office for a position I've been working towards all year. Logistically it just works out better for me going into work rather than commute to the place of the interview and back home etc.
So im up late last night prepping for my interview.
I wake up early as shit this Morning for work, not really feeling all that well, but whatever opportunity.
Halfway into work my girl calls me we exchange pleasebtries and she asks me how im doing, I say stressed and I basically tell her all that had happened with me etc.
This venting session lasts right up until I pull into my parking spot at work, with 4 hours to go before my big interview. I say I got to go Im at work now. To which she repsonds you didn't even ask what am I up to and then BOOM. She starts fighting with me calling me selfish for not wanting to hear what shes up to.
I ask her if this is a reoccurring theme, if Im frequently not inquiring about her day, how she is etc. To which she replies no this is an isolated incident and she was just making an observation.
Again im floored asking her if she couldnt wait until after the interview to bring up her observation because clearly shes not happy about it. Etc.
Everything spins out of control from there. I just finished the interview, I think I did well, just not as well as I could have because I was in the middle of a fight prior to it.
Now I feel wronged but Im also heated so I may not be as self aware or willing to see things from her perspective. So Im asking GAF to just check me and let me know if im being a selfish ass or if Im in the right.
Iunno I just needed a place to vent. Im stressed as fuck right now with life and I have a killer migraine right now.
The last 24hours quite stressful for me. Im coming up on my 1 year anniversary at work. I have a single paid vacation day left that Ill lose on Nov 9. Monday was supposed to be my day off but someone called in sick so I had to come in no biggie Ill just take it on Tuesday.
When I get home at 5, I see that theres a problem with my internet and after 3 hours I get it resolved. I then get a message from my boss informing me of a interview with head office for a position I've been working towards all year. Logistically it just works out better for me going into work rather than commute to the place of the interview and back home etc.
So im up late last night prepping for my interview.
I wake up early as shit this Morning for work, not really feeling all that well, but whatever opportunity.
Halfway into work my girl calls me we exchange pleasebtries and she asks me how im doing, I say stressed and I basically tell her all that had happened with me etc.
This venting session lasts right up until I pull into my parking spot at work, with 4 hours to go before my big interview. I say I got to go Im at work now. To which she repsonds you didn't even ask what am I up to and then BOOM. She starts fighting with me calling me selfish for not wanting to hear what shes up to.
I ask her if this is a reoccurring theme, if Im frequently not inquiring about her day, how she is etc. To which she replies no this is an isolated incident and she was just making an observation.
Again im floored asking her if she couldnt wait until after the interview to bring up her observation because clearly shes not happy about it. Etc.
Everything spins out of control from there. I just finished the interview, I think I did well, just not as well as I could have because I was in the middle of a fight prior to it.
Now I feel wronged but Im also heated so I may not be as self aware or willing to see things from her perspective. So Im asking GAF to just check me and let me know if im being a selfish ass or if Im in the right.
Iunno I just needed a place to vent. Im stressed as fuck right now with life and I have a killer migraine right now.