As I said, in that case, upon hearing that the OP was dealing with his own things, she could and should have vented to someone else so as not to add to his stress levels.
That's what family and friends are for.
I do find it hilarious you keep accusing me of making assumptions whereas you keep coming up with ridiculous scenarios where she had a horrific day that warranted her starting an argument.
Someone who has had a bad day and isn't self absorbed/selfish would realise that if the person they are talking to has their own issues at that time, maybe it's better not to add to their problems and instead go to someone else until that person is better placed to talk, but no, let's worry about her day and not her starting an argument knowing how it would affect the OP.
I'm not coming up with "ridiculous scenarios." I'm saying it's
possible she had a worse day and had something more important than an interview going on. You think that's a ridiculous scenario?
Look, you obviously expect your significant other to repress their problems, for your benefit. I agree...
sometimes. It depends on the gravity of the problem or the issue. Interviews are obviously important, but I can think of a number of situations that are more trying and important than that and, personally, if this was in the context of
my relationship, I'd absolutely want my husband to interrupt my bad day, and come to me, if he had something worse going on. I wouldn't consider that selfish. I would consider it an accurate assessment of how our relationship works -
I'm his rock if he needs one.
You can live your life however you want, but I think it's better to consider these types of "ridiculous scenarios" and talk to your significant other, instead of assuming only the selfish possibility.