And it's silly and it makes girls self conscious. It is not in a mans best interest to make a woman feel self conscious about their vagina. It confuses the hell out of me because I've always found vaginas of all kinds of shapes and sizes beautiful and a sexual turn on.. I mean.. is this just not part of being attracted to women?
And anyone with experience with a lot of vagina's knows that a virgin can have large labia, and a girl with numerous partners could have a very small vagina + labia. And "tightness" on the inside is also hugely variant, and hardly related to sexual experience as well.
Will an older woman be more likely to have larger labia? Yes. Can pregnancy loosen the muscles inside the vaginal cavity, and affect other structural aspects to create a looser vagina? Sure.
But the rest is exaggeration and just.. guys being really petty, immature, and counter-productive to making women feel comfortable with their vaginas.. which is something guys should want if they have interest in those vaginas.
I take this way too seriously.
But, I just do. LOL