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It would be extreamly painful...
So you just choose to not have relationships at all?
I mean, I like to frame my not being in any sort of relationship as a conscious choice I am making, so yes.
So you just choose to not have relationships at all?
Clearly, it was soon to be cuffing season for the girl at the beach.Seriously, what is OP talking about? Summer is over so no more thoting.
I've never had a breakup because I've never been in a relationship, but I've been turned down twice- Once from a girl in February 2016 and once from a boy in March 2017. This probably means that I won't fall in love until April 2018 and I'll get turned down again, following the pattern.
Was there a point you were supposed to be making by going through through OPs post history?
Yes it means he needs to start getting his shit together.
Yes it means he needs to start getting his shit together.
You fall in love with people, and then ask them out?
I think you are doing things backwards.
Wait, why else would you ask someone out? Do people just ask out people they have no interest in, is that what I'm missing?
cant breakup when you are eternally alone
Interest and mutual attraction is different to love. If you love someone before you have dated them, then you dont know what love is or how relationships work.
Wife and I are going through a divorce. Doesn't make sense to me because she says she loves me, I'm the best person she's ever met and she's eternally grateful for all I've done, yet she doesn't want me.
Went to a couples session and she was willing to go only to say she wants out, so now I'm working on filing the divorce. She says She needs to grow up, yet she struggles to pay her portion of the finances we agreed to split and She has maxed out 2 new credit cards She applied for.
She says she doesn't want 50%, she only wants her car paid off so she can remove that burden from herself and make life easier for her. How can a person be so selfish and tear apart a family, yet not really know what they are seeking in life?
Wait, why else would you ask someone out? Do people just ask out people they have no interest in, is that what I'm missing?
You fall in love with people, and then ask them out?
I think you are doing things backwards.
Got married too young and she wants to experience other things and people.
You can't be serious.
Love and interest are VERY different. Love only maybe develops after you know someone really really well. Like after being with them for a year or more.
Why would you ask someone out if you didn't love them?
Both times, the people I fell in love with were friends I'd known for a while. So yeah, I knew them really really well. I knew the first for three y
I broke up in june. Way ahead of the curve.
Seasons are flipped in the southern hemisphere if you live there so you may be right on schedule.
Smash n dash season innit
Rebound season is here too. Free sex.
Nope you were supposed to be doing that from March-August
It's time to find your cuddle buddy.
BBW to keep ya warm in the winter
Damn, that thread is a graveyard. People that tend to give relationship advice must also correlate with people who antagonize and don't play well with others. Are she and your ex-friend still together?
31, and same...
Why would you ask someone out if you didn't love them?
Both times, the people I fell in love with were friends I'd known for a while. So yeah, I knew them really really well. I knew the first for three years.
And those who do would immediately throw up a red flag for me.Very few people would describe their emotional state on date 1 as "in love"
Nope you were supposed to be doing that from March-August
It's time to find your cuddle buddy.
Nope you were supposed to be doing that from March-August
It's time to find your cuddle buddy.
Very few people would describe their emotional state on date 1 as "in love"
Yeah, that's creepier than dating 18 year olds at 27.
I'm getting closer to breaking up with my gf for a simple reason: we've been together for 2 years, talked about living together, but she wants kids and I don't (not that I don't want with her, she would be an excellent mother, I don't want kids period), so...yeah, there's no middle ground for that. We love each other a lot and right now we are kinda in the "enjoy it as much as you can while it lasts", but at the same time we now this can go to shittown sooner than later.
Knew a co-worker who broke up with her boyfriend of 9 years for the same reason. They still love each other I think. Very tough, but it's really one of the only 100% "make or break" things, I think. It would be completely unfair on her, you, and any potential kids if that's really your feeling on the matter.
The OP makes me laugh though, where do people get this "social trend with no basis or hypothesis" bullshit? That said my current GF ended both of her prior relationships in October/November, so maybe I should ignore our happiness and be irrationally paranoid...
I actually find a lot of relationships end around april - may