I really can't understand the whole issue with this.
What is so good about crossplay outside of a very small minority of people who'd like to use it when it makes better business sense (especially against your main competitor) to not? Before I am berated as to why this is not the case, then I can only answer that Sony must think so because they aren't doing it and I'd assume they'd know their business quite well...
What the hell is wrong with that?
I'd rather Sony was grilled to fuck over the shitty arse and extremely distasteful manner in their no communication as to lack of SS for Pro for 1080p owners. After all, that cost £350 to those consumers who have been 'baited & switched' whereas what people are complaining about here is a feature one wouldn't or shouldn't really expect when purchasing a console 'of choice' - and it hasn't cost them £350 for it's inability to do so/nor was it suggested to be the norm before they bought it.
Or to be grilled over showing games many years before they come out; or lack of first party games released 4 years into a consoles cycle; or why GTSport has taken 4 years to come out and is half of the normal size; or why the DS4 is a P.O.S that has faults (several) by design meaning I've got to keep buying new ones; or why a lot of ps+ games have not really been what a lot of people wanted....and so on.
Sounds more like 'smart' marketing from Microsoft to try and discredit Sony in the eyes of gamers than a feature we should expect. Perhaps I could suggest Microsoft should be less concerned about what others are not doing and more concerned about what 'they' should be doing? - Microsoft how about stop fucking around with crossplay bullshit and give me some AAA 1st Party Exclusives instead? See? Sounds just as 'entitled'...
Sorry if that offends some in a sense where it sounds like I'm saying 'it doesn't affect me so I don't give a fuck' because that is not the case at all and I certainly don't agree with that kind of attitude at all. However, in this case I can genuinely see why Sony is entitled to not do crossplay and is nothing at all like the other shitty practices they've become accustomed to.
As it happens however, I'm still glad people are complaining about this to a degree because the more flack Sony gets (even if I don't agree), the more they can get the finger out of their arses and hopefully sort of more important issues I mentioned above, imo, of course, that will prompt others to complain about as well.