That's a great encapsulation of this thread. The problem is that Nintendo doesn't seem to want to do any of that. Their reluctance to make anything for the dudebro gamer is a good indication of their problems. Even if they hate this demographic, a platform holder cannot just ignore it.
If those aren't the types of games that Nintendo makes, then it is traditionally up to third parties to fill that void. But third parties have been leaving Nintendo hardware high and dry for a while now, hence their dilemma. I'm honestly not sure what Nintendo could do to change that at this point. It's like a broken record every console generation.