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Nick Robinson (Polygon) answers to sexual harassment allegations, leaves Polygon

Hero

Member
Here's another thing, I don't believe his apology because he acts like he was just flirting when one of his victims said that he flat out told her not tell anyone. He knew what he was doing was wrong, he's just sorry he finally got outed.
 
Nicks a pos but whoever put this together is creepy as well.

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Just for the sake of accuracy, Sidney Fussel is definitely friends with Gita Jackson and probably other people affected by this by extension. This is much more closely knit than the Cosby situation.

I think they were referring to the tweets that were in response to the Overcooked thing.
 
Thanks for the detailed reply. I guess some of my question was more about handling this privately. They don't have to write a public story about this, just let Polygon know they have a potential problem and let them decide what to do with it. Especially since it seemed to already be insider info to a lot of people, just not anybody who could do something about it. Its my understanding that employers can fire employees for any reason or no reason at all and wouldn't have to reveal anything to get rid of Nick (of course I'm probably mistaken on this, but I hear similar things fairly often). Maybe this all went down the way it has to and it is better that it all blew up publicly rather than Polygon taking care of it internally a while ago and not commenting on why Nick was let go.

I guess my problem with this is it seems like the correct thing to do when confronted with sexual harassers is "nothing" and it seems like we could do better. Of course, people should support victims and help them the best that they can, but it seems frustrating that has to come with the cost of letting sexual harassment go, especially in this case where it seems people knew of continuous harassment against multiple people for years.

Got it! I think I misunderstood your initial question. I frankly don't have an answer as to whether Austin would've been able to report this to Polygon via confidential means. He very possibly could have. And you are totally correct as to hiring and firing policies. That being said, I wouldn't be surprised if someone could make a lawsuit out of that for tortious interference with a business relationship, so that might be a motivation as to why that wasn't done.
 
Is this the world's most savage anime-avatars-are-a-red-flag joke? I only watched like forty seconds.

No I just feel his aw shucks I am shy but cute attitude is working the audience of females by conscious choice. You know trump and his when you get famous they let you do anything? I think he was aware of that for a while.
 
The thing is that this all happened because of someone responding to a tweet essentially an accusation and it all unraveled.

I think that's why people compare this to the Cosby case, because it was something that was widely known and just came out because someone completely unconnected to anyone involved decided to make a comment about it.

Pretty much. The whole damn thing is a fucking mess, no way around it. I'm glad that Nick has to deal with some consequences now, but I don't have a whole lot of faith that there isn't more of this shit out there.
 
I'm surprised Griffin hasn't said anything more, he and his brothers seem so conscious of creating a welcome environment on their other podcasts and Griffin seems to be one of Nick's more common collaborators.
 
Do you not like an opinion different from yours being expressed? I can see the appeal of echo chambers, but you'll be intellectually coddled and your growth stunted that way.

Why are you assuming he's talking about you? Also why are you assuming what he's saying has anything to do with a supposed echo chamber if he is?
 
I'm surprised Griffin hasn't said anything more, he and his brothers seem so conscious of creating a welcome environment on their other podcasts and Griffin seems to be one of Nick's more common collaborators.

Gies tweeted about how he wasn't allowed to say anything even though he really wanted to after Nick's apology was released. And he doesn't even work there anymore. I don't see how Griffin or Justin can say anything without breaking some non-disclosure agreement likely already in place if Geis can't talk.
 

Squire

Banned
I think they were referring to the tweets that were in response to the Overcooked thing.

Sorry, that's what I meant.

https://twitter.com/bloodyhoney_/status/893257429378621440

That's Sidney Fussel, a freelance writer. He's definitely friends with Gita and probably others affected. Key difference from Hannibal Burress outing Cosby.

Gies tweeted about how he wasn't allowed to say anything even though he really wanted to after Nick's apology was released. And he doesn't even work there anymore. I don't see how Griffin or Justin can say anything without breaking some non-disclosure agreement likely already in place if Geis can't talk.

I think Gies last day is technically the 15th, but you're right either way. Their hands are probably tied on this.
 
Sarcastic comment wasn't needed. The post is full of random redditor tweets who i assume is accurate .it's huge compilation of internet post in a detective like manner. It's creepy and scary to me. Internet isn't truly anonymous at all.

That was my point? Internet detective is how it pans out, which is probably best for everyone. As of seeing the original thread with the OP, I think a lot of people were in the dark with what was posted before passing 'judgement.' As we so freely do without having the full picture. (Which obviously as a bystander we will probably never have.)

I didn't see any other way this would happen for, Nick, just yeah. Echoing his reponse, although not appreciated by all. The line between internet persona and real life person has definitely blurred. Especially when you become that 'big.' How you conduct yourself online can definitely have an effect to your meatspace life and I think this is a good bell to remind everyone of that. I've never been that way, but the anonymity the internet can afford people shoudnt be thunk as an easy pass to be a creep, just because it's 'virtual.'
 

jaybe00

Neo Member
Why are you assuming he's talking about you? Also why are you assuming what he's saying has anything to do with a supposed echo chamber if he is?

Why are you assuming that I was assuming he was talking to me? I just like discourse. When people aim to shut it down with weak thoughtless posts, sometimes I decide to comment on it. If you know what an echo chamber refers to, I think you can get it.
 
Gies tweeted about how he wasn't allowed to say anything even though he really wanted to after Nick's apology was released. And he doesn't even work there anymore. I don't see how Griffin or Justin can say anything without breaking some non-disclosure agreement likely already in place if Geis can't talk.

Oh damn, I hadn't heard that. Aren't Gies and Justin two of the more powerful decision makers at Polygon? Did Chris Grant decide no one should make statement or do lawyers dictate all that?

I kind of doubt that though, why would it be a legal issue?
 

Squire

Banned
Oh damn, I hadn't heard that. Aren't Gies and Justin two of the more powerful decision makers at Polygon? Did Chris Grant decide no one should make statement or do lawyers dictate all that?

I kind of doubt that though, why would it be a legal issue?

No legal complaints have been filed by victims. Anyone adjacent to this that comments too specifically or in the capacity of the job they do (i.e. Patrick's report for Waypoint) needs to tread lightly so as not to open themselves up to a potential defamation suit, I'd think.
 
No legal complaints have been filed by victims. Anyone adjacent to this that comments too specifically or in the capacity of the job they do (i.e. Patrick's report for Waypoint) needs to tread lightly so as not to open themselves up to a potential defamation suit, I'd think.

There's the possibility of a defamation/tortious interference with a business relationship on Nick's end and a possibility of a vicarious liability suit on the part of Nick's victims. Which means a whole lot of not being allowed to say anything without opening yourself up to a whole lot of headache and potential legal fees. That's not to justify the silence, but to explain why a person should expect it.
 
Why are you assuming that I was assuming he was talking to me? I just like discourse. When people aim to shut it down with weak thoughtless posts, sometimes I decide to comment on it. If you know what an echo chamber refers to, I think you can get it.

Fair point. I have a knee-jerk gag reflex to seeing the word echo-chamber because I find it equally dismissive to actual discourse so I understand how you feel.
 
No legal complaints have been filed by victims. Anyone adjacent to this that comments too specifically or in the capacity of the job they do (i.e. Patrick's report for Waypoint) needs to tread lightly so as not to open themselves up to a potential defamation suit, I'd think.

Yeah, I wondered if it was to stay safe from a potential defamation suit, but there's been so many accusations that Nick would have to be pretty fucking bold to try that.

Vicarious liability on the part of people he's hurt like Rumble said above doesn't make sense to me, seems like people like Gies and Griffin should be able to condemn his actions without naming specific people he affected.
 

Squire

Banned
There's the possibility of a defamation/tortious interference with a business relationship on Nick's end and a possibility of a vicarious liability suit on the part of Nick's victims. Which means a whole lot of not being allowed to say anything without opening yourself up to a whole lot of headache and potential legal fees. That's not to justify the silence, but to explain why a person should expect it.

Absolutely. Thanks, this is in better terms than I could put it.
 
Yeah, I wondered if it was to stay safe from a potential defamation suit, but there's been so many accusations that Nick would have to be pretty fucking bold to try that.

Vicarious liability on the part of people he's hurt like Rumble said above doesn't make sense to me, seems like people like Gies and Griffin should be able to condemn his actions without naming specific people he affected.

If there's a chance Polygon knew or had reason to know that Nick engaged in this behavior while working as a representative of Polygon, there's grounds for a summons and complaint on vicarious liability by the victims as against Polygon/Vox. Not saying they'd win, just saying there's a chance. Any public admission by employees or former employees as to Nick's behavior while they worked with Nick at Polygon could be used against Polygon and Vox in a suit. It's not that the suit would be successful, but it's to prevent the chances of a suit coming even at all.
 

BTA

Member
Sorry, that's what I meant.

https://twitter.com/bloodyhoney_/status/893257429378621440

That's Sidney Fussel, a freelance writer. He's definitely friends with Gita and probably others affected. Key difference from Hannibal Burress outing Cosby.

So not to go against your point (they are friends with Gita; a lot of the people whose tweets started this are friends), but at the risk of making an ass of myself: I don't think that's Sidney Fussell! I mean, beyond their name, I've followed them for a while and they're a game dev, not a writer.

It looks like there's a Sidney Fussell using @sidneyfussell that writes at Gizmodo that you might be confusing them with.
 

Nose Master

Member
So, there's no way that Klepek story ever sees the light of day now, hey? Scoops working for someone as big as Vice kind of sucks, really.
 

Squire

Banned
So not to go against your point (they are friends with Gita; a lot of the people whose tweets started this are friends), but at the risk of making an ass of myself: I don't think that's Sidney Fussell! I mean, beyond their name, I've followed them for a while and they're a game dev, not a writer.

It looks like there's a Sidney Fussell using @sidneyfussell that writes at Gizmodo that you might be confusing them with.

Huh! My mistake then. Could've sworn he used that as a handle.
 
If there's a chance Polygon knew or had reason to know that Nick engaged in this behavior while working as a representative of Polygon, there's grounds for a summons and complaint on vicarious liability by the victims as against Polygon/Vox. Not saying they'd win, just saying there's a chance. Any public admission by employees or former employees as to Nick's behavior while they worked with Nick at Polygon could be used against Polygon and Vox in a suit. It's not that the suit would be successful, but it's to prevent the chances of a suit coming even at all.

I see, makes sense.

Social media personalities are typically so outspoken it's odd seeing everyone clam up about something like this. I wonder if Gies will speak out once there's more distance between him and Polygon.
 
I see, makes sense.

Social media personalities are typically so outspoken it's odd seeing everyone clam up about something like this. I wonder if Gies will speak out once there's more distance between him and Polygon.

What groundbreaking tweet are you expecting from Gies exactly?
 

Ozigizo

Member
Laws primarily determine the truly wrong activities. Surely what he did is not upstanding, brace or courageous though. Acting like millions of young people aren't being transactionally fast at gauging interest be it with tinder or snapchat nowadays is kind of putting your head under a rock.

You should add "I am not a lawyer" to your posts.
 

Duderino

Member
Far as I'm concerned, Nick did apologize for his crass flirting, which yes, is a form of sexual harassment. I highly doubt that fact is lost on him after the internet dogpiled on him this week.

I can understand why some in this thread find his response disingenuous, he did stop short of directly spelling it out as sexual harassment, but consider for a moment what that label can mean. Not how it applies here (and it does), but what actions "sexual harassment" or "sexual predator" are most frequently associated with. Just uttering those words lead people to believe the worst of the worst happened. Nick's actions were bad in their own right, but I don't blame him for avoiding that language. Similarly, it's in his best interest to keep it light on the details.

If you were hoping Nick would write an apology that would, in writing, cement his record for life as a sexual predator and list off a litamy of his wrong-doings, then perhaps it's time to re-read the Scarlet Letter for a little perspective. Nick does owe these girls a further apology, but it should not have to be another public spectical. People calling for more to scrutinize are honestly a little sick in their own way. Let everyone directly involved take it from here.
 

Nerokis

Member
I have a question.

As a result of all this, I've been introduced to the concept of "soft boy culture." It's still somewhat vague in my mind, but my understanding is that it describes a form of manipulation in which someone consciously distances themselves from toxic conceptions of masculinity in order to cover up their intention to exploit someone. Basically, the term reflects a double adaptation: the adaptation of predators to a new social environment, and the adaptation of potential victims to a new form of manipulation.

What I don't know is how Nick Robinson sparked the discussion around soft boy culture. Or rather, the screenshots and allegations I've seen make it counterintuitive for me to imagine Nick as "soft." Is it generally understood that this is how he approached most of his victims? Or is"soft boy" just how people are understanding the fact that a total nerd ended up being capable of this kind of manipulation and harassment?

I'm not asking for specifics on what Nick did - just trying to fully understand the conversation. Until ~10 minutes ago, the soft boy thing was totally foreign to me.
 

Tagyhag

Member
I have a question.

As a result of all this, I've been introduced to the concept of "soft boy culture." It's still somewhat vague in my mind, but my understanding is that it describes a form of manipulation in which someone consciously distances themselves from toxic conceptions of masculinity in order to cover up their intention to exploit someone. Basically, the term reflects a double adaptation: the adaptation of predators to a new social environment, and the adaptation of potential victims to a new form of manipulation.

What I don't know is how Nick Robinson sparked the discussion around soft boy culture. Or rather, the screenshots and allegations I've seen make it counterintuitive for me to imagine Nick as "soft." Is it generally understood that this is how he approached most of his victims? Or is"soft boy" just how people are understanding the fact that a total nerd ended up being capable of this kind of manipulation and harassment?

I'm not asking for specifics on what Nick did - just trying to fully understand the conversation. Until ~10 minutes ago, the soft boy thing was totally foreign to me.

Holy crap, I was almost going ask the same thing lol.

If soft boy is a negative term, why does Nick use it as his image?
 
Holy crap, I was almost going ask the same thing lol.

If soft boy is a negative term, why does Nick use it as his image?

People started to see through it, like when guys used to say "but I'm a nice guy, why do we always finish last".

"Nerds" are truly some of the angriest, most bitter assholes you will ever meet.
 

Pepboy

Member
I have a question.

As a result of all this, I've been introduced to the concept of "soft boy culture." It's still somewhat vague in my mind, but my understanding is that it describes a form of manipulation in which someone consciously distances themselves from toxic conceptions of masculinity in order to cover up their intention to exploit someone. Basically, the term reflects a double adaptation: the adaptation of predators to a new social environment, and the adaptation of potential victims to a new form of manipulation.

What I don't know is how Nick Robinson sparked the discussion around soft boy culture. Or rather, the screenshots and allegations I've seen make it counterintuitive for me to imagine Nick as "soft." Is it generally understood that this is how he approached most of his victims? Or is"soft boy" just how people are understanding the fact that a total nerd ended up being capable of this kind of manipulation and harassment?

I'm not asking for specifics on what Nick did - just trying to fully understand the conversation. Until ~10 minutes ago, the soft boy thing was totally foreign to me.


I'm not super familiar with it (hadn't heard of it before this stuff happened), but my sense is that it's not intentionally about manipulating women.

Seems originally its a concept or term to acknowledge rejection of traditional roles of masculinity. Perhaps because they feel these definitions of masculinity contribute to a patriachical society or is ultimately self-damaging.

So in a way, it might cause others to "lower their guard" around such individuals. As such, perhaps predators or manipulative types will try to use these labels, but my sense is that this is the exact opposite of the intended meaning.
 

Ozigizo

Member
I have a question.

As a result of all this, I've been introduced to the concept of "soft boy culture." It's still somewhat vague in my mind, but my understanding is that it describes a form of manipulation in which someone consciously distances themselves from toxic conceptions of masculinity in order to cover up their intention to exploit someone. Basically, the term reflects a double adaptation: the adaptation of predators to a new social environment, and the adaptation of potential victims to a new form of manipulation.

What I don't know is how Nick Robinson sparked the discussion around soft boy culture. Or rather, the screenshots and allegations I've seen make it counterintuitive for me to imagine Nick as "soft." Is it generally understood that this is how he approached most of his victims? Or is"soft boy" just how people are understanding the fact that a total nerd ended up being capable of this kind of manipulation and harassment?

I'm not asking for specifics on what Nick did - just trying to fully understand the conversation. Until ~10 minutes ago, the soft boy thing was totally foreign to me.

It's the new "Nice Guy."
 
Pretty weak apology imo.

I'm sure he'll make far more money from his inevitable patreon and twitch / youtube channels than he was being paid at Polygon anyway and he'll be free to slide into as many dm's as he wants.
 

L Thammy

Member
A lot of people in the previous thread were saying that they liked Nick Robinson because he seemed like a "soft boy". Unless I'm confused. This is the first time I've heard the term.

There's a whole bunch of information on that padlet that I didn't know. It's kind of a pain to go through the whole thing, but I think it paints a pretty clear image, and makes it even more understandable why those closer to the women affected here don't buy the naive innocent act in the apology.
 
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