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neoGAF, a plea for help: please read

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wolfmat

Confirmed Asshole
Was able to donate without registering at GiveForward through PayPal, good stuff. Good luck, Amir0x! Say hello to your mother from me!
 
Ok, I've read this thread a few days ago, but I didn't have any money at the time. I can donate something now! Unfortunatelly not much, but will do what I can!
 

Jimrpg

Member
Good Luck to your mother. and Amirox - NEVER GIVE UP! go get the money anyway you can! Can you get a kidney transplant? Just do it. Make your mother healthy again!
 

Jocchan

Ὁ μεμβερος -ου
Thanks Ami for setting up PayPal, I donated what I could. Best of luck, man.
 
Wow pretty incredible to see how much has been raised. Also huge props to evilore for the huge donation he made, definitely makes you feel good to be apart of this community.

I'm trying to get my paypal set up for other reasons but i'll send a donation once it's done.
 

Venfayth

Member
I have donated what I can right now, I may donate more depending on finances and stuff.

This also means you're...

OVER 9000 :D
 

Ogni-XR21

Member
Let's give this another bump, shall we?

I only donated while at work without reading much of this thread. Just read through this whole thread with teared up eyes.

As someone living in Germany where you don't have healthcare bills like you have in the US I found it to be even more important to donate.
 

Jinfash

needs 2 extra inches
61%

That's really great, though I still think we could have pushed the reddit posting farther. Do you have a specific deadline for this campaign, Amir0x?
 

Amir0x

Banned
61%

That's really great, though I still think we could have pushed the reddit posting farther. Do you have a specific deadline for this campaign, Amir0x?

The deadline is the end of June. I've got some events coming up - like a DONATE FOR A MOM ON MOTHER'S DAY drive - so I think we'll push some up on this time.
 

jaypah

Member
whoa, somehow i never saw this thread. i love and hate you Ami. the love side will donate on friday when i get paid. in the mean time, thoughts and well wishes!
 
Donated 5$. Hopefully it helps. Also seriously. It really boggles my mind how someone can defend US healthcare system. There was thread about ridiculous defense forces in GAF. this would be one of those.
 

Amir0x

Banned
Donated 5$. Hopefully it helps. Also seriously. It really boggles my mind how someone can defend US healthcare system. There was thread about ridiculous defense forces in GAF. this would be one of those.

I mean even though I would disagree with those who argue universal health care is a bad thing, I could at least respect their position if we had a health care system that made it so that if you were responsible and did buy into health insurance that you didn't have to worry about the financial end of things - everything should be paid from the second you buy insurance.

Here we have a situation where my Mom has been insured for nearly 30 years and the health care she has keeps getting worse, and because my Mom is always so ill the costs are astronomical. It's absurd. We should have been worrying about being with my Mom during this time, for as long as it takes, instead of trying to worry about money.

This system is so fucked in this country.

whoa, somehow i never saw this thread. i love and hate you Ami. the love side will donate on friday when i get paid. in the mean time, thoughts and well wishes!

I don't remember having any disagreements with you, but it's never personal. Appreciate you not letting your personal foibles with me affect what you think about my mom and donating. She's a great person...

donated $20. A little effort from me to reach closer to your goal.

Thank you :D
 

Vire

Member
Donated. I can't imagine what you are going through.

Cheers.

Edit: Hmm, I seem to be getting an error on my end. One moment...
 

Anteater

Member
Forgot about this because was waiting for the paypal link last week, donated $15, sorry that I couldn't donate more, good luck man!
 

Amir0x

Banned
Forgot about this because was waiting for the paypal link last week, donated $15, sorry that I couldn't donate more, good luck man!

Thank you. Every bit helps so much :)

UPDATES:

1. After much heated discussion between the DaVita dialysis center and my mom's health insurance company, the insurance agreed that if they are sent a letter of medical necessity over dialysis @ home, they will cover three of the treatments per week, but we'd have to cover the other two. Those two would amount to approx. $1000. So that'd be $4000 on the dialysis alone per month, before factoring in the rest of my mom's immense medical bills.

2. The alternative to this is apparently buying into some sort of alternative supplemental insurance which they said they might make an allowance to give my mom accessibility there, but that process would take many months and that'd be many months of torture for my mom until it all went through. But in the end it'd be cheaper, because the supplemental insurance is X amount per month (not sure precisely what yet), and they said with that we'd have to pay maybe $1000 per month instead.

3. Current Medical Bills Debt since September 2011 (my mom said I can share this), and this is with all my savings going into help her and all my Dad's savings and his working 16 hour days 6 days a week and me sending my mom huge chunks of my weekly checks: $18,683.

4. Today we finally got a camera, so we'll be updating the thank you video sometime later today. My Mom cannot thank you guys enough.

5. We're going to be doing a HELP A MOM ON MOTHER'S DAY drive on May 13, 2012. Our goal would be to raise $1000 on that day. So I'll send out some letters and hopefully you guys help can spread the word when it's time.



Once again, thank you guys for everything you've done. This has been such a pleasant experience and it has really helped shift my Mom's mood dramatically even before she can afford the dialysis @ home treatment. So this has done some good in my eyes even if the world exploded and we never get the funds. You guys are great.
 

daw840

Member
Thank you. Every bit helps so much :)

UPDATES:

1. After much heated discussion between the DaVita dialysis center and my mom's health insurance company, the insurance agreed that if they are sent a letter of medical necessity over dialysis @ home, they will cover three of the treatments per week, but we'd have to cover the other two. Those two would amount to approx. $1000. So that'd be $4000 on the dialysis alone per month, before factoring in the rest of my mom's immense medical bills.

2. The alternative to this is apparently buying into some sort of alternative supplemental insurance which they said they might make an allowance to give my mom accessibility there, but that process would take many months and that'd be many months of torture for my mom until it all went through. But in the end it'd be cheaper, because the supplemental insurance is X amount per month (not sure precisely what yet), and they said with that we'd have to pay maybe $1000 per month instead.

3. Current Medical Bills Debt since September 2011 (my mom said I can share this), and this is with all my savings going into help her and all my Dad's savings and his working 16 hour days 6 days a week and me sending my mom huge chunks of my weekly checks: $18,683.

4. Today we finally got a camera, so we'll be updating the thank you video sometime later today. My Mom cannot thank you guys enough.

5. We're going to be doing a HELP A MOM ON MOTHER'S DAY drive on May 13, 2012. Our goal would be to raise $1000 on that day. So I'll send out some letters and hopefully you guys help can spread the word when it's time.



Once again, thank you guys for everything you've done. This has been such a pleasant experience and it has really helped shift my Mom's mood dramatically even before she can afford the dialysis @ home treatment. So this has done some good in my eyes even if the world exploded and we never get the funds. You guys are great.

That's great to hear. Honestly, just lifting her spirits does more than money ever would.

When does that website disperse funds? Do you have to make your goal before it's distributed?
 

Amir0x

Banned
Just wanted to apologize for the lack of thank you video. My mom has had a really rough week in dialysis and simply has been sleeping most of the week, so we're going to try to get her to record a short video on her cellphone which might just be the easiest way.

Appreciate the patience and thanks for all the new donations; Gaborn, Zombie and Wilflare & Friends :)
 

Cheska

Member
Just recently saw this through a post on someone's Facebook. Really sorry your family is having to go through this Ami :( Sent a little something your way.
 

Ministration

Neo Member
Hey Amirox, I don't trawl GAF much (other than the iOS gaming thread, more as a dev), but happened to see the link tweeted by wilflare.

I sent you a donation - I hope it goes a long ways in easing your mom's pain. Godspeed.
 

Amir0x

Banned
we just went over $10,000, Brian Kwek made a very generous donation of $600!


We're nearly 70% to goal! Thank you GAF!
 

BeeDog

Member
Don't have that much money this month, but made a small contribution all the same. I have been in a very similar position with my own mom, so this really hits close to home.

Hope everything goes well Ami. Good luck to everyone involved.
 

commedieu

Banned
Hello everyone. I don't mean to be an alarmist, but I suggest people who have used Give-Forward website check their accounts for any fraud. Long story short, shortly after donating to the company based in Chicago IL, My account was hit with some fraudulent activity stemming from the IL area. I've had no history of purchases in IL, online or off. And am a Los Angeles resident. It could be purely coincidental, but better safe than sorry.
 

Anderson

Member
Just seen the thread, donated $20 and will give more on payday. Hope you reach your goal, your mum sounds an amazing person
 
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