the trick is to never be friends with anyone.
Not even yourself
the trick is to never be friends with anyone.
Nah, disagree completely - it's either there or it's not.
LOL Nah, how did you hold the L... in a way. Details, my boy, details.
Pack your shit and go home, it's over man.jk, maybe you'll find one, but it's definitely not the norm
It's okay if their relationship is dead. Sometimes it takes a while to get out of things. I've had it work out for me at least.
You could *insert any possible combination of circumstances* and then end up being just friends with someone.
the trick is to never be friends with anyone.
I can't share. I was typing the story then realized how pathetic I sounded. I gotta change. Be more aggressive without sounding lame.
IMO It's usually due to a lack of any sexual tension or spark and/or the guy being outright boring. This is where some of that PUA advice actually has some value.
Persona A doesn't see Person B as romantic or sexual tension or chemistry.
Person B decides to get a better body and improve themselves.
Persona A starts to drool.
IT HAPPENS. It doesn't hafta happen in the beginning.
Nope
It sounds like OP's paying most, if not all of her expenses until her "career gets going"...that would explain them having so many "dates".
so he's a sugar daddy.
I'm actually getting frustrated that after the countless pages we've been discussing this shit we're all still saying "friend zone"
It's not a real thing. It doesn't exist. Stop fucking saying it.
It's not a real thing. It doesn't exist. Stop fucking saying it.
We are not going to judge, we're here to help.
This is cloud-cuckoo level wishing, juvenile simplistic thinking, and complete BS.
:-(Nah I'm good, fam.
This is cloud-cuckoo level wishing, juvenile simplistic thinking, and complete BS.
Alright, well, gotta find the right time in one of the many "dates" we have every week. lol
Complete BS? Are you saying that doesn't occur?
No. We must destroy all the Zones.
Any fringe event can occur every so often, outliers aren't something you should count on.
No. We must destroy all the Zones.
Improving yourself to make yourself more attractive and it working is an outlier now? LOL
I'm actually getting frustrated that after the countless pages we've been discussing this shit we're all still saying "friend zone"
It's not a real thing. It doesn't exist. Stop fucking saying it.
Way to stretch the point beyond recognition, or maybe what I was saying wasn't clear - if you already know somebody and there is no spark/attraction, hitting the gym and losing a few pounds is almost never going to make any difference.
Way to stretch the point beyond recognition, or maybe what I was saying wasn't clear - if you already know somebody and there is no spark/attraction, hitting the gym and losing a few pounds is almost never going to make any difference.
Way to stretch the point beyond recognition, or maybe what I was saying wasn't clear - if you already know somebody and there is no spark/attraction, hitting the gym and losing a few pounds is almost never going to make any difference.
If she's not physically attracted to you, but you improve your physical attraction, she may become physically attracted to you afterward.
Notice how his profile picture even has her in it
I've witnessed both males and females improve their looks and suddenly have people interested in them that weren't before.
But high school was a long time ago for me.
You really think a woman's attraction to a guy is some kind of equation where if you get physically fitter she will suddenly be into you just because of that? I really have nothing else to say to this kind of thinking.
Exactly! How is this so hard to think that stuff like this happens all the time? And it isn't even a vain thing all the time. Just work out and get a good body and improve yourself (in general) and people who might not have liked you before... might jump for you now.
I'm actually getting frustrated that after the countless pages we've been discussing this shit we're all still saying "friend zone"
It's not a real thing. It doesn't exist. Stop fucking saying it.
And plus, the person who wasn't attracted to me when I was a fuckin uggo...why imma try to fuck with em now I'm cute?
I believe improving your physical attraction and overall presentation increases the number of people who are physically attracted to you. That number could include people who weren't attracted to you before.
There's a bit of a difference between a natural ass glow up that happens in HS and shit happenin later in life
And plus, the person who wasn't attracted to me when I was a fuckin uggo...why imma try to fuck with em now I'm cute?
Hah, seriously, this is such a shallow take on human attraction. This chick wouldn't give me the time of day before, but now that I'm swole she's interested - wow what a catch! True Love gents.
This guys been put in the FZ one too many times
I'm actually getting frustrated that after the countless pages we've been discussing this shit we're all still saying "friend zone"
It's not a real thing. It doesn't exist. Stop fucking saying it.
let's just all agree to never touch each other ever again.
That sounds like something someone in the friendzone would say!Female, and no, I haven't.
Hah, seriously, this is such a shallow take on human attraction. This chick wouldn't give me the time of day before, but now that I'm swole she's interested - wow what a catch! True Love gents.