Krauser Kat
Member
What the fuck at this whole post...
You're trying to to justify your selfishness right out of the gate with a virgin's lack of experience.
That's fucked up, dude.
What the fuck are you talking about. Nothing about that is selfish.
I dont want to date someone who doesnt have a clear idea of who they are sexually. There is no shame in their position, i dont put shame on them, i just dont want to do it.
To properly give someone the love and time to get them acclimated with their sex life and to have it end up you two are not sexually compatible with them. It is a hard place to be in as the person with experience because its hard place to be in even when both of you are inexperienced.
I have been in that position and had to make a hard choice, that i would rather leave and have a happier sex life elsewhere then be with that person i lost virginity too. I cant imagine trying to do that again with someone, especially with the experience i currently have.
I went on a couple dates with this amazing girl who had problems in her past and was still a virgin. She was like "hey, this is deal, are you in?" I had to make the decision. Even if i didnt care about not having sex for a couple months. i didnt want to be that person for her. We both were both cool with that and went on our separate ways like adults.