What, then, is the proper alternative to a chargeback? How can a customer have their money back? Legit asking, I'd like to know.
Also, ending a relationship between customer and service provider has different consequences when you've created a library of "goods" through several business transactions with the provider, goods which are (or at least should be) _yours_ and all of a sudden you're deprived of their usage. Seems to me there's laws that haven't caught up with the times yet.
It is literally end of the line stuff.
Imagine that you've bought something from, I don't know, Amazon? You pay £50 for something and just after you've done that they cease trading and you've not received the goods that you've paid for.
That could be a case when enforcing a chargeback is suitable because you are already at the end of the line.
That's not the only time it would be suitable but I think it gives an illustration of what "the end of the line" really means.
If Sony had taken money from the OP's credit card without permission then that would be a suitable reason to enforce a chargeback. That hasn't happened here, although the OP didn't want them to take the additional funds he did actually give them permission to take them even though he/she didn't seem to understand that they'd done that.
If you enforce one in a situation as has happened in this thread, which is due to your own error and you haven't reached the end of the escalation process then you are essential bringing "the end of the line" to your relationship with that company.
By doing a chargeback you are essentially accusing that company of wrong doing and although it over simplifies things you're pretty much accusing them of illegally taking your money.
Of course, there will always companies that are accessions to the rule but for me to consider enforcing a chargeback I would really have to be absolutely certain that I'd exhausted all means at my disposal before taking such extreme action.
It's worth noting that in any situation that you request a chargeback you are removing the company from the conversation. Your credit card company would forcefully take it from their registered banking system. By excluding that company from the process it's unlikely that they're going to be willing to play nicely with you after somebody has essentially gone into their account and taken money from them and accused them of taking that money
without permission.
It's probably worth mentioning also that there are no guarantees with a chargeback, your credit card company isn't obliged to do anything if you request a chargeback as it's not the standard process to deal with refunds.
I'm pretty sure that it's been mentioned on here before but if you've paid for something via Paypal and then made a chargeback request you can get yourself in all sorts of problems. The difference would be in the situation in this thread if he had paid with PayPal and did chargeback for this the chargeback would be issued against PayPal rather than Sony because that's who your credit card is connected too.
I've read things where PayPal have been involved like this and they've locked that PayPal account and even revoked earlier payments that were also funded with the same credit card which means that you could end up with loads of companies being on the end of this single chargeback.
One of the issues with chargeback is that chargeback fraud is a massive source of loss for companies across the globe and there are companies that have been set up purely to protect companies from chargeback fraud. A quick google search will probably bring up numbers for different countries.
It's a massive business and the vast majority won't even entertain customers who do chargebacks once the customer has declared that it is the end of the line for them.
I don't know what legal obligations credit card companies have in relation to explain the issues that will probably be caused by issuing chargebacks but I would suggest that they certainly have a moral responsibility to educate any customers who request one. One of the issues is that credit companies have no interest in the reason for the chargeback, they are going to speak to which ever company you've registered it against. They will just go in there and force your money from them, it's up to you as the customer top decide whether it's suitable or not.
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Damn, that's a lot of work and probably not very well organised either.