Normally on this Province Forum I post under the Province Pi name, since the information is typically SAE business or event promotion. In this instance I want to post under my name, so this is clearly identified as my words. Words. Words can be some of the most powerful and harmful weapons used in the world. Words cannot be taken back.
I am embarrassed, hurt, disgusted and angry at the words used in the video released yesterday. I have never before heard such vile words in a cheer or song in my Fraternity life. Thousands of SAE volunteers work tirelessly to educate and promote the best ideals of SAE. The words in the True Gentleman leave no room for interpretation. They are clear, concise and true. Sadly, stupidity and racism exists. It exists in the dark corners of work, family dinner tables, schools, churches, clubs, sports teams and Fraternities. You will all be exposed, or have been already, to people using words to hurt, marginalize and harm. The words may be posed as a joke, a generalization of a group or just directly insulting. It is up to you to handle these words with the indignation they deserve. The work to be done in our country to truly be an open, tolerant and fair place is great and real True Gentleman should be prepared to carry the load.
I was planning on wearing an SAE polo to work today, and last night I questioned if I should. This thought made me sick. I was concerned what I may hear at work, since my colleagues all know of my love for and work with SAE. After some thought and prayer, I decided to wear my purple and gold today, on our Founders Day. What better day to stand with the Supreme Council, our FSC Staff and countless Brothers that promptly and soundly renounce these hurtful and ignorant actions. Today I am proud to be an SAE.
I encourage you to have open dialogue within the walls of your Chapters and Schools. I encourage you to not brush this aside, as if this could not exist at your school. I challenge us all, to use our words and actions to be better men today than we were yesterday. Do not accept the way things were, as the way things have to be. As always, if you are struggling with and challenges in your Chapters, your Alumni, Province Council and FSC Staff are here to help.