digitalrelic
Banned
Trying to woo a girl by telling her "It'll only take 3 minutes".
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I have an update. I texted her this morning an apology saying I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable and I feel like a creep for what I did. She replied "lol not at all"
She sat next to me at the extra credit thing and we are talking like it didn't even happen.
Soooooo yeah
Two minute warning doesn't apply here.
Like I said before.I have an update. I texted her this morning an apology saying I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable and I feel like a creep for what I did. She replied "lol not at all"
She sat next to me at the extra credit thing and we are talking like it didn't even happen.
Soooooo yeah
The foundation has been laid. Now just continue to build. Before you know it, it will be time to move in.
Bruh, I'm trying to get to the root of the problem and improve. I've heard what you've been saying for the past 7 pages and I'm reflecting on myself to prevent it from happening again.
Okay you might have a point, but I didn't think she was a good match for me dating wise she cute and whatnot but we don't have much in common. Maybe this is due to my inexperience, but the dates I have gone on in the past went nowhere and I was out $20 bucks. And that was with girls I thought I had chemistry with.
The thing is, I wasn't afraid of asking her out. I just felt that, if we did go out, it wouldn't result in anything. I felt that we didn't have any real chemistry other than me being physically attracted to her.
Okay see, what my thought process was here was pretty simple.
I thought:
After the final, I won't see her on a regular basis.
Instead of going through the hoops of asking her out, deciding on a place, and whatever, which I didn't feel like doing, I figured, "If I ask this and she doesn't reciprocate, there is only one more class before I never have to see her again"
I wouldn't be heartbroken by this, I just have a thing for her and that's it.
I was thinking that if I did this, I wouldn't be putting anything on the line unlike a date where I would drive there and pay for a meal and what not for a higher possible chance at fingerbanging but more resources spent, compared to no resources spent with a higher percentage of failing
It's like XCOM.
I have an update. I texted her this morning an apology saying I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable and I feel like a creep for what I did. She replied "lol not at all"
She sat next to me at the extra credit thing and we are talking like it didn't even happen.
Soooooo yeah
I have an update. I texted her this morning an apology saying I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable and I feel like a creep for what I did. She replied "lol not at all"
She sat next to me at the extra credit thing and we are talking like it didn't even happen.
Soooooo yeah
She wants to be your friend,
I'm thinking I just ask her out before we part ways, and leave it at that. If me being a creep wasn't enough to make her hate me, maybe I got a shot.
I'm equipping the Plasma Rifle
I'm thinking I just ask her out before we part ways, and leave it at that. If me being a creep wasn't enough to make her hate me, maybe I got a shot.
I'm equipping the Plasma Rifle lol Jk
You got it dewd, I bet you get to fool around with her in like a week or so.
Might be the pessimist in me, but doubt it. We'll see if OP gets a message from her asking if he wants to hang out after this semester/class is over I guess?
I'm thinking I just ask her out before we part ways, and leave it at that. If me being a creep wasn't enough to make her hate me, maybe I got a shot.
I'm equipping the Plasma Rifle lol Jk
It could be tonight if OP's game is on point.
I'm thinking I just ask her out before we part ways, and leave it at that. If me being a creep wasn't enough to make her hate me, maybe I got a shot.
I'm equipping the Plasma Rifle lol Jk
I would not ask her out yet. I think you need some more time from the incident and more of a gauge on how she feels about you two. Maybe in a week if you guys are still talking and she is obviously comfortable then ask her out for some coffee.
I'm equipping the Plasma Rifle lol Jk
WTF?!
I would not ask her out yet. I think you need some more time from the incident and more of a gauge on how she feels about you two. Maybe in a week if you guys are still talking and she is obviously comfortable then ask her out for some coffee.
I think the OP should keep in mind that in college there are a lot of virgins saving themselves for marriage and girls that only do that kind of sexual stuff with actual boyfriends. You run into that a whole lot less in the postgrad barlife and dating world but I would never, ever assume that a 20ish year old girl is comfortable with a guy coming on that strong.
I'd read that. Would be a welcomed change from the adolescent male ones we get usually.i want to see her thread on her message board
Do not listen to the people saying wait a week.
Ask her today. If she says she didn't find you weird. It wasn't an "incident", and honestly I think it was no big deal and not worth asking if she felt weird about it.
Especially in a joking tone, and with her acting like it was a joke.
Ask her out, and if she says no, say "Okay" and then continue your extra credit shit I guess.
I understand where the sentiment comes from though. She didn't show any specific sign of interest in me. I said something inappropriate (tho she didn't seem to care), and I said we didn't have much in common. I don't have much to lose either way, but I can see the "wait" option making sense.
I'd say most of my friends are women actually. I'm not awkward/creepy when I talk to women regularly. I've joined clubs and organizations, met girls, asked them out and whatnot. It's mostly sexual stuff I don't really get. Tinder never worked for me, (never got matches), so meeting people face to face is how I usually interact with girls. It only becomes awkward when I approach situations in the wrong way.
A lot, huh?
I am more concerned about the dehumanization of said girl into some object/plaything to be used at the OP's will. I mean all sensible concepts of human interaction were thrown out the window with this one for the specific goal of the OP having an experimental fucktoy for all of 3 minutes.
This goes beyond any level of being socially awkward/romantically inept and heads closer to sociopath/serial killer territory.
You have to be friends with her first. Don't expect a single thing. You can pursue her, but leave the sex/fooling around stuff out of the conversation.
There are places to "hook up", but the golden rule is to become friends. Sex and even fooling around are about trust than simple attraction.
Trust is way more important. Going at it like, "let's do this" is going too far. She might need to know you like her more than just a sex object.
Some people just want to fool around. Its not like people are attracted to others and want to have sex or fool around with someone without going on a bunch of dates first or anything. Thats just crazy.
Ya know, reading this thread, it seems like OP has suspect ass social skills, even for OT threads on GAF
And fool you ain't ever kissed anyone but you're trying to finger fuck someone knowing yo ass don't know shit? The hell?
Anecdotally, I ran into a couple perfectly attractive virgins in their mid 20s and probably half the girls I dated after that age range had only ever been with like one or two guys their whole lives and these were women between 23 and 28 or so. I'll see if I can dig up some surveys but it's not some statistically insignificant number last I looked. I spent my dating years in the south so I'm not sure if that skews it a bit.
It's like looking at alcohol statistics and being kinda surprised at the number of adults that don't drink.
Edit: quick google search
https://www.google.com/amp/www.cosmopolitan.com/politics/news/amp47924/college-virgin-poll/
UPDATE: I have an update. I texted her this morning an apology saying I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable and I feel like a creep for what I did. She replied "lol not at all"
She sat next to me at the extra credit thing and we are talking like it didn't even happen.
Soooooo yeah
She asked what does "fool around" mean.