Have you tried using Xbox One when Xbox Live goes offline or develops problems? I'm not convinced they reversed that one out the driveway totally - they just gave the impression they did.
Well last night I couldn't sign into live and played Far Cry 4 without a problem for a couple hours from disc. So, yeah. Digitally though, I get your meaning.
The sad thing is that they DID change the way it works and now we're left with these problems. If my licences had been checked in the hours before when XBL was up, I'd have been able to play my digital games while XBL was down. Now there's no internet "check in" I have to validate as and when I want to play a game.
As for Konami - their email security measures sound legit, to me. All comes from the fact that a lot of people are so rabidly frantic about getting a single screenshot of a game early (a game that isn't out for 3 years) that they're trying to prevent leaks. I say fair enough to that.
Rest of it is no more limiting than a lot of companies in the world. I used to have to punch a clock at my old company to go and take a leak so that they could work out if I was taking too long on toilet breaks in a day. Lunch breaks were monitored in SECONDS at two companies I worked for with any "late" time being shown on a leaderboard so that everyone could see it. If you haven't seen any of this, then you probably have never worked in customer service or tech.