I work remote from here in KC suburbs, while traveling often to DC/NYC. You might as well be on different planets when it comes to transportation.
In KC you either live downtown (30 min away by car) or you never go unless you work there. There are essentially zero public transportation options for the commuter here, unless you count the random bus line or car pool. But unless you work there, everything is so damn spread out there's never a reason to travel that far. One aside: KC housing is relatively cheap, making it easier to live farther from downtown. I would also point out that outside of newer lofts and some old apartments, living downtown or near downtown is basically a non-starter, or has been until very recently.
Contrast that with DC/NYC. Once there (downtown/manhattan) I am always either on foot, on the metro, or in a taxi or uber. Everything is so central that's easy to go from my hotel, to my HQ/office, to grab a bite and back. It's awesome and I love it.
But why do I work remote? Because living anywhere close to my office HQs is insanely unaffordable, to the point where justifying me living there would make me too expensive for my company. If I spent here what my peers do there, I'd be in a 5+ bedroom, 3500 sq ft near-mansion. There? Sharing a 1-bedroom loft with 3 other dudes.