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[Lucian Cat]

Last person I had a crush on was my fuck buddy. He's now my bf

Eggman, my bro. Can you simp any harder?

I don't think it's possible

 

[Trent Strong]

No. The only emotion I ever feel is anger.

 

[shadyspace]

No. The only emotion I ever feel is anger.

Trent gets it.

 

[oneils]

Eggman, my bro. Can you simp any harder?

Or is that drythirst begging? I'm not sure if I will ever get that right.

 

[injurai]

Yes, but I don't act on them...

 

[Atramental]

Or is that drythirst begging? I'm not sure if I will ever get that right.

I think there's some overlap between the two terms.

 

[Vesmir]

The relationship I'm in now didn't start off as a crush, but now I crush hard for her. It's weird.

Also never crushed for any other relationship I was in. Makes it even more odd.

 

[The Artful Dodger]

Nah, Not really.

I'll talk to anybody but tend to avoid feeling that for ladies unless I know there's a chance of something happening. I'm not shy, and don't avoid talking to them, but like...At this point...I'm alright with just being pals, if something happens cool, if not, I just move on.

 

[ComputerMKII]

It's simpler to just ask if I ever don't get crushes.

 

[Complex Shadow]

I do, but crying in the fetal position in the shower, helps me reset.

 

[Kitsunebaby]

I think my last crush was back in middle school. I'm far too lazy to actively crush on someone or obsess about them, nowadays.

 

[wenis]

I crush on people everyday, but I usually forget about them the next day.

 

[HiiiLife]

Crushing is not based.

 

[Tesseract]

all the time.

 

[Maddocks]

all the damn time.

 

[Kitsunebaby]

They never sell grape flavour individually so, no.

But orange is clearly the best!

Edit: Tesseract gets it.

 

[umop_3pisdn]

I experience a really minor form of infatuation with almost everyone, I think a lot of it is the novelty of new people combined with an equally insubstantial attraction. It's pretty meaningless and doesn't last for much longer than a moment but it's basically a constant.

I also experience more substantial infatuations but those are pretty rare, I would say maybe two a year, and those don't really hang around for very long either.

 

[PowderedToast]

ooh ooh i got a crush on you

 

[Pastry]

Never as ridiculous as mentioned in the OP but yeah I do. Currently got a pretty big crush on the waitress at the bar I go to all the time (I'v got friends that work there so I go at least once a weekend). We have been flirting for a while and next time I'm there I will just pull the trigger and ask her on a date. My friends are convinced she's a lesbian or at least bi, but I'v got no shame. Never know unless I try.

I don't really get random crushes on girls though, the girl mentioned above and I started flirting and then it developed into a crush.

 

[bengraven]

Since being married, I really don't get "crushes" on people in "real life".

I get crushes on film/movie/music stars or artists, that's about it.




Edit: I take it back, I do have a bit of an open crush on my wife's tattoo artist friend. She's fucking beautiful, has awesome tats and piercings, and some really really nice...assets. Oh and she's British.

 

[BadAss2961]

Eggman, my bro. Can you simp any harder?

Dude is thirstay.

And to answer the question, not since high school.

 

[D6AMIA6N]

Maybe if I were still 12. Maybe.

 

[T Dollarz]

I can't get over a crush on a coworker and I quit the job 3 months ago lol. I still go back to see her like twice a month and we talk over the phone sometimes but I know she'll never see me that way. It sucks and fucks with my head lol

 

[braves01]

shanshan, if we ever dated I'd take you for a nice dinner and then put my coat on the puddle in front of the restaurant when we got out then take you home and just hug you good night.

 

[Dark Stalkers]

Yes, but mostly because of the way you worded this:



What a depressing way to look at relationships.

reality is often depressing

 

[Salsa]

kinda, but it's not like when I was a kid where it's just painfully obvious and I cant hide it

 

[LuffyZoro]

I've never thought that the person I was crushing on was a perfect goddess come down to bless me with her mere presence, but yeah, I've had some.

 

[BadAss2961]

I can't get over a crush on a coworker and I quit the job 3 months ago lol. I still go back to see her like twice a month and we talk over the phone sometimes but I know she'll never see me that way. It sucks and fucks with my head lol

Take her to an adult theatre.

 

[T Dollarz]

Take her to an adult theatre.

Lmao what could go wrong?!

 

[Cameron122]

Sometimes.

SOURCE. SOURCE NOW.

Last crush I had wasn't too long ago. I'm a sophomore at college, my last crush was my senior year. Sweet little South African girl. Haven't really spoken to her since we graduated.

 

[EnderWiggles]

Only on my sister at Christmas

 

[entremet]

Nope.

 

[GAMERG0D]

At the moment, yes.

 

[D6AMIA6N]

Only on my sister at Christmas

Lol

 

[Atramental]

SOURCE. SOURCE NOW.

It's Lights aka Valerie Anne Poxleitner.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lights_(musician)

 

[TheKaeptain]

I fall in love with every woman I see.

 

[Sai-kun]

Yes. I get attached so easily, which is...not a good thing, but I just can't help it most of the time.

 

[Videoneon]

In the OP, isn't that "bromance"? I don't think I've ever bromanced.

Crushing...yeah. It's not often, but when I do I fall hard at first. I try to reign in my hopeless romantic.

I can't get over a crush on a coworker and I quit the job 3 months ago lol. I still go back to see her like twice a month and we talk over the phone sometimes but I know she'll never see me that way. It sucks and fucks with my head lol

Just propose to her now. Love conquers all. Make sure to do it at a baseball stadium and have the proposal show up on the scoreboard.

 

[Dr. Feel Good]

"Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention?"

 

[SteveWinwood]

I listened to that episode today as well.

And yes you are a robot.

And you forgot to mention that the guy was a mormon too, so there was this whole religious thing with that as well.

 

[shadyspace]

In the OP, isn't that "bromance"? I don't think I've ever bromanced.

Crushing...yeah. It's not often.

lol the guy's gay

 

[Videoneon]

lol the guy's gay

Damn. Show's what I know. I had a friend who was really attached to another dude in middle school. This changes everything.

 

[DrBo42]

I was listening to TAL earlier today and there was a story about this guy who was crushing hard on this other dude. Thought about him all the time, made up excuses to get a shirtless photo of him, was always finding excuses to visit him at work, guy was head over heels. I didn't find it creepy or anything but I did find it unrelatable. Got me to realize that I never get worked up like that. Like, dating for me is "huh I wouldn't mind having sex with her" and then asking the girl in question out and having sex until I get bored of her. But I never even approach the level of "omg this person is the most amazing person ever blah blah blah". Is this just a maturity thing (not that I recall feeling like that when I was younger either) or am I just not as emotional as some people?

If that's your idea of maturity, I don't know what to tell you... I hope you find someone you really connect with on multiple levels. It's good stuff.

 

[BPRD]

i think crushes are all i get. once i get the girl i feel dead inside, or want someone else. i'm 27 and need viagra already ]= without it i want nothing to do with even the hottest/coolest girl

 

[shadyspace]

I listened to that episode today as well.

And yes you are a robot.

And you forgot to mention that the guy was a mormon too, so there was this whole religious thing with that as well.

yeah it was a great segment, didn't want to complicate the issue at hand with the religious angle tho and it didn't sound unlike any other intense crushes I've heard of

 

[Ezalc]

Not on the level of omg this person is totally the 1 for me 4ever. But I still get crushes, then I get crushed by the power of friendzoning.

 

[Cyan]

I totes have a crush on the OP.

 

[Dice]

This is too subjectively defined to answer. Do I ever find that I enjoy someone's company and look forward to spending time with them again? Yes. Do I put more significance into it than that? No.

 

[neojubei]

I do unfortunately that adds to my overall low esteem i have for myself.

 

[LegendOfGood]

I do unfortunately that adds to my overall low esteem i have for myself.

Why would having crushes lower your self esteem?