This too.
I'm fine for people thinking or believing whatever they want and living their lives as they see fit. However, they don't need to make simple questions or innocuous, pedestrian situations more complicated with their personal political/ social perspective. All that does is make the moment awkward and creates unnecessary debate and questions that normally shouldn't be asked over something so insignificant. A simple yes or no is sufficient. As if I care you're a vegan or an environmentalist. To me, that shows a level of misguided sanctimonious pride and self righteous, that you have to tell me why you can't accept my sandwich or why you can't accept my offer for a ride. People have the need to express themselves but forget the world doesn't revolve around them and that nobody cares.
You're really proving the video's point. There's nothing immediately or intentionally political in a simple statement of "I'm vegan" when someone denys an offer of a sandwich. That person could simply intend to give you a simple reason of why they're denying a sandwich.
You are projecting that they are being "self righteous" or "sanctimonious".
You are assuming that they think the "world revolves around them". And you are thinking these things because you think they are judging you, when they could be making a simple toss-away statement. Even if they were judging you, what does it matter to you? It shouldn't matter to you unless, as the video points out, you take it personally and think that they're getting something out of judging you, being "self righteous".
I think you're missing my point entirely which is that personal preference is personal politics (as well as selling vegan-ism short because I don't think many would describe it simply as an aversion to the taste of meat or a preference for non-meat). I discussed the decision-reasoning jump in earlier posts (some of which is above).
If I had time, I would respond to more of your stuff, but I'll boil it down to here (though I appreciate the discussion).
I just want to clarify, I totally agree with you that most everything is political in some nature. But I have a feeling you're arguing on a red herring here. The discussion shouldn't be on whether something is political or not.
What I'm arguing against you is the
practical side of doing so. Believe me, I love to raise a stink every now and then to point out when my friends do micro-aggressions. But when I do, I don't go into detail of the political ramifications of what they said. Most likely they would deny whatever implications came from it.
With these specific scenarios in the video, it's a step further back. If I'm a vegan and someone offers a sandwich, it's just as reasonable for me to say "no thanks, I'm not hungry" as it is to say "no thanks, I'm a vegan". We could argue the ins and outs of the reasoning for why one would say the latter instead of the former, but practically speaking there's nothing meaningfully or intentionally political in that statement. The point of that video was to show that the
receiver of that statement projects those assumed politics onto the person, thinking "they're judging me" when it's just a statement. Heck, even if they were intending it to be a political statement, what does it matter? There's no reason to get uppity about it in retaliation.