sleepnaught
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Would be a terrible parent. Watching my nephew from time to time is enough to test my nerves, I couldn't handle being a full time parent.
Also, you don't have to like kids.. most parents I know don't really like other peoples kids outside of a few. It's 100% different when they are your own.
I also hope the term child free doesn't take. For some reason it makes me want to immediately punch someone, sort of like conscious uncouppling.
I also hope the term child free doesn't take. For some reason it makes me want to immediately punch someone, sort of like conscious uncouppling.
You should probably look into anger management if a couple words innocuous words joined together sets you off.
Would you want to punch your kid, if later in life they said they wanted to be child free lol?
"Childfree" my eyes rolled into the back of my head.
I also hope the term child free doesn't take. For some reason it makes me want to immediately punch someone, sort of like conscious uncouppling.
I have decided to stay childfree for my whole life for different reasons, including a lack of self confidence, but also lack faith in mankind, as well as other reasons.
The people who don't have kids because they're concerned about the future are exactly the sort of people who should be having kids.
But to each their own, i personally feel like many of those who choose to remain without children will regret it further down the road, but likely, many of those who have children also kindasorta regret the freedom they lost once they did have children.
I don't regret having kids, but I regret having somewhat wasted the years where we didn't have kids. Wish we'd taken more holidays, travelled etc. You certainly learn how precious time is.
I agree with your assessment on how demanding of time childless relatives can be.
this is why that vasalgel thing is needed bruh
Just one needle near your junk and you good for 10 years
I was child free until last month.
I miss it sometimes, especially since my baby has colic and my wife and I are at the end of our ropes.
The people who don't have kids because they're concerned about the future are exactly the sort of people who should be having kids.
Ask your parentsKids are annoying af, I don't know how people willingly have them. Must be instinct.
A long time ago, my mother told me my father was the type of person who never should've had children. Still shook.
Care to elaborate?
Yes, child free here. Kids can be great, and if my wife wanted them, I'd have been happy to have one. But, she has 5 younger siblings. The youngest of them is about 20 years younger than her. She basically raised them, since her mom worked long hours, and there was no father figure in sight, so she's already been there, done that. My parents were maybe a bit disappointed at first, but my sister gave them their grandchild to spoil, so the heat was taken off me.
I have no regrets at all. Especially since both our families have a history of alcoholism, depression, and schizophrenia (oh, and the possibility of cystic fibrosis). Wouldn't want to subject a child to all of that anyway.
It's making it sound like some movement or collective of people. Not just a choice.