I feel like it's very difficult to have a meaningful conversation about this without being attacked. Despite what many of you are saying in your replies, I do understand what's happening, and I too have people I care about in my life who are affected by it. I also understand white privilege and how I benefit from it. I know from experience why that's a difficult thing for many people to come to terms with.
The truth is, however, none of you know who I am or what I actually believe, because I've never expressed those opinions on here. I'm open-minded and try to be as objective as I can be, and as a result, I find few who'll sit on the log with me. That's OK. I don't want to offend anyone, and I apologize if I did, but I wish people would actually talk respectfully with one another.
I'm out. It's clear I'm my perspective doesn't mean anything here.