I bought an Xbox 360, Wii and PS3 last gen. Bought the 360 at launch, the Wii pretty much at launch, and the PS3 when Metal Gear Solid 4 came out (got the bundle).
The 360 was my console of choice for much of the generation, even though I got the Red Ring of Death twice (once under warranty, once I had to replace it myself). I preferred the 360 controller and in the early going I was just more impressed with Microsoft's direction (XBLA, et cetera).
It was probably around the time the Kinect came out that this all changed. I bought a Kinect and wanted to be wowed. Nope. I held on to it for too long before giving up on it. By this point, the Xbox team's focus didn't seem to be on games I liked at all. Kinect crap and shoot shoot shoot were all they were dishing. Sure there was the occasional gem (Deadly Premonition), but it seemed like they got cocky. They had my money. They had me paying for Gold so I could play football online with my brother who lives in Hawaii. They were making all kinds of cash with ads plastered on my Xbox even though I was paying them for a "premium service". Just let it ride.
On the other side, Sony was offering PS+, which I tried to ignore. "I'm NOT paying for another monthly service that feels like a waste of money, where I'm getting the raw end of the deal," I says. But when I actually considered it (and probably found a sweet Black Friday deal or something), it seemed incredible -- and it was. Also, over on the ol' PS3, there seemed to be all kinds of interesting game coming out (The Last of Us, Beyond, et cetera). Sure, there was much shooting to be done, but these games seemed to have heart; they weren't just the same ol' first-person shooters that seemed to dominate the Xbox's lineup.
So I made the decision to let my Gold expire and jump on the PS+ wagon. Perhaps the Xbox team could win me back. "Oh? Games with Gold, you say? This could be great!" I said. "Here, have Fable 2 or Army Men 3 or Gears of War or some $5 XBLA game that wasn't critically acclaimed, but whatever" says Microsoft.
So more than anything for me, it's not even about the Xbox One (although I have more issues with the One than with the PS4); it's about the Xbox brand's last few years. It's been building up to this. They've pushed me away. I have a launch PS4. I have a launch Wii U. I do not have an Xbox One, nor do I want one in its current state. Will Microsoft ever be able to win me over and bring me back into the fold? Maybe. I do love video games. But first, they have to give me a reason. I don't want to feel like a consumer; I want to feel like a gamer. Ya know?
And that's what happens when I decide to post on NeoGAF while having my morning coffee.