It is truly amazing how many dudes completely lose their shit when you suggest that they have to relate to someone who's not also a straight white male.
Like, having a female Link is a "slippery slope" that could result in "forcing artists to focus on appeasing mobs" yet somehow having a male Link doesn't do this? Because Male Link sprung pure from the minds of his creator, and was not male solely because most protagonists were male, and in fact continue to be male.
This is, of course, bullshit.
If every videogame released for the next 3 years was required to have a female protagonist, it would STILL leave male protagonists as historically dominant in the medium, by a hilariously absurd amount.
This same thing comes up in regards to movies. People feeling the need to express how odd it is that Rogue One has a female protagonist, right after The Force Awakens had one. As if its bizarre to have more than a token female in a franchise.
The insistance that if people want Link to be female they should be fine with Samus being turned into a male, also demonstrate a lack of understanding (or intentional misunderstanding) of what hte issue is. The point is that women and girls are SO INCREDIBLY UNDERREPRESENTED in this medium, and that men and boys just as over represented, that suggesting changing a female protagonist it male is completely different.
If there was a 50/50 split between male and female protagonists in games, this wouldn't be an issue, but since there obviously isn't, it is.
Now, if you are so wrapped up in the idea of Link as a male, that you cannot handle the very IDEA of even a CHOICE of Link being female, maybe you should examine why that is.
Also maybe you should try consuming some media centered around female characters. You might find that you get a new perspective on things.