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Best game to show a first date?
- Thread starter Jack Remington
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Backfoggen
Banned
Soldier of Fortune 2.
Hot Coldman
Banned
you know you could have just said "you know, because they gave birth to them" right
you had a perfect set-up for an adequate gag and you RUINED it
Devilgunman
Member
OP, if you show her a video game on the first date, she will go see somebody else's puppy the next day. Just saying.
This is why I don't have a career in writing.
NervousXtian
Thought Emoji Movie was good. Take that as you will.
This so much.
soxinthebox
Member
Show her some Persona 4 max S link events.
SuperAngelo64
Banned
I wouldn't recommend bringing up gaming at all on a first date.
But, when trying to subtly 'convert' using 'gateway' games, I use Rhythm Heaven for DS. It's worked like 5 times.
I wouldn't even bring up the gaming thing at all unless she's texting you something like "What are you doing right now?". If a chick is into you she'll want to do what you're doing.
But, when trying to subtly 'convert' using 'gateway' games, I use Rhythm Heaven for DS. It's worked like 5 times.
I wouldn't even bring up the gaming thing at all unless she's texting you something like "What are you doing right now?". If a chick is into you she'll want to do what you're doing.
Fancy Clown
Member
Don't. Just don't.
This.
Starting to push your hobby on someone on the first date will only end in them not wanting to see you again.
Don't try to "prove" how far gaming has come. Especially not on a first date. You are there to have fun and try to offer her a unique date experience.
On the other hand people saying never play games or implying she just wants to fuck on a first date are being overly cynical. If you pick the right game, it certainly can provide a unique, fun experience, even for non-gamers. Certainly more interesting than just the typical movie.
Here's one that would work well as a date game and offer a lot of fun: the new YOU DON'T KNOW JACK.
On the other hand people saying never play games or implying she just wants to fuck on a first date are being overly cynical. If you pick the right game, it certainly can provide a unique, fun experience, even for non-gamers. Certainly more interesting than just the typical movie.
Here's one that would work well as a date game and offer a lot of fun: the new YOU DON'T KNOW JACK.
P4Golden Valentine's Day with all female social links maxed.
It's like a condensed soap opera.
Aquavelvaman
Banned
This is the correct response.
Captainbojanglesiii
Banned
crimzonflame
Member
I think OP is in love with video games.
Pai Pai Master
Banned
You got better things to do on a first date than play games son.
Like hand and mouth things.
Like hand and mouth things.
Gross.
This is the best.
FlashbladeGAF
Member
You should focus all attention on her and if all goes well play games or at least video games on another date.
But if you have to play a game on the first date...
...play Shadow of the Colossus
But if you have to play a game on the first date...
...play Shadow of the Colossus
FallingEdge
Member
rofl
Aquavelvaman
Banned
Show her Depression Quest and then go on a tirade about "social justice warriors"
#topical
#topical
I think many casual people play those games you mentioned. They are easy to access, they are on Facebook and are easy to pick, learn and get a little dead time runs faster for many, weather they are waiting on the bus to the work, between a break or while waiting for something. As you mentioned, she played Super Mario World back in the day but that does not make her interested in Video Games.
It seems that she showed some interest in you and after a couple of drinks at the bar, she wants to go to your place, to see your puppy. Not many girls are okay with going to the date's house in such early state of dating but she seems confident enough to do that, so it's okay. I'm saying this because for some, it's a bit risky to go to someone's house since well, she doesn't really know you.
But in this early stage of knowing someone you need to work harder. Videogames may seem your comfort zone but it might not be hers. Playing Candy crush and one game "back in the day" does not make her excited in videogames, in general and does not make her a kind of gamer, like you stated.
I don't know how old you are or how much experience you got in dating or in relationships as well how confident you are, but picking a subject both may be interested is far more doable than "hey, you played a game back in the day, let me show you how FAR games have come!" That can truly scare her and you may lost your chance for a second date. I can already see her, on another topic, in another forum, making a thread: "So I went on a date with this guy, I even gave him an easy tip stating something like oooooh I want to go to your place to, you know, see your puppy, but then, when we arrived he started showing me videogames... really, videogames! Because I told him I played a game like years ago and I play something on my iPhone he's showing me The Last of something and I'm feeling so out of my area, I don't even understand or like any of this, I just play a little puzzle game, every now and then, ugh, how embarrassing...! Is this what guys do in these days as a date?What happened to having a little creativity?"
Like someone posted, you need to have a plan in your house. A bit of wine, music or a nice desert waiting seems a good choice. Even better if you cooked yourself. It shows your talent and can bring to different topics to talk to. It also shows you took your time and dedication to create and make something for both to enjoy. Also, have some fresh flowers in your house, buy some little snacks to grab with your wine but nothing too strong, spicy, with cheese, etc. Having some books around can bring a topic about literature, art on the walls always grab someone's attention, a little chill-out music can help with the mood. Soft lights instead of bright lights are warm and can help make people more comfortable. Skip things like candles because they are far more intense and may give a sense of "trying to hard" to make a romantic place, instead, you can have a little incense stick burning. It's minimalist, small and having a place with a nice aroma intensifies your senses creating more desirable thoughts, conversations, etc. There is a lot of things you can have in common with her so don't grab her little interest in the most casual social game ever and use it as your comfort zone to start a conversation.
My good fellow GAFfer, there are many things I could go on or even giving you an advice but I already think I'm writing too much and I'm not sure if you agree or even read this so, best of luck. There's a time and place for everything and in my opinion when you state something like "While I have her there, it´s probably the perfect opportunity to show her how far gaming has come since Super Mario World." I just can't simply agree with that... at all, ever. There are many things that can go right on a first date, but also, many wrong, I wish you the best of luck and I hope one day you can find your soul mate.
EDIT: This is also a nice post:
It seems that she showed some interest in you and after a couple of drinks at the bar, she wants to go to your place, to see your puppy. Not many girls are okay with going to the date's house in such early state of dating but she seems confident enough to do that, so it's okay. I'm saying this because for some, it's a bit risky to go to someone's house since well, she doesn't really know you.
But in this early stage of knowing someone you need to work harder. Videogames may seem your comfort zone but it might not be hers. Playing Candy crush and one game "back in the day" does not make her excited in videogames, in general and does not make her a kind of gamer, like you stated.
I don't know how old you are or how much experience you got in dating or in relationships as well how confident you are, but picking a subject both may be interested is far more doable than "hey, you played a game back in the day, let me show you how FAR games have come!" That can truly scare her and you may lost your chance for a second date. I can already see her, on another topic, in another forum, making a thread: "So I went on a date with this guy, I even gave him an easy tip stating something like oooooh I want to go to your place to, you know, see your puppy, but then, when we arrived he started showing me videogames... really, videogames! Because I told him I played a game like years ago and I play something on my iPhone he's showing me The Last of something and I'm feeling so out of my area, I don't even understand or like any of this, I just play a little puzzle game, every now and then, ugh, how embarrassing...! Is this what guys do in these days as a date?What happened to having a little creativity?"
Like someone posted, you need to have a plan in your house. A bit of wine, music or a nice desert waiting seems a good choice. Even better if you cooked yourself. It shows your talent and can bring to different topics to talk to. It also shows you took your time and dedication to create and make something for both to enjoy. Also, have some fresh flowers in your house, buy some little snacks to grab with your wine but nothing too strong, spicy, with cheese, etc. Having some books around can bring a topic about literature, art on the walls always grab someone's attention, a little chill-out music can help with the mood. Soft lights instead of bright lights are warm and can help make people more comfortable. Skip things like candles because they are far more intense and may give a sense of "trying to hard" to make a romantic place, instead, you can have a little incense stick burning. It's minimalist, small and having a place with a nice aroma intensifies your senses creating more desirable thoughts, conversations, etc. There is a lot of things you can have in common with her so don't grab her little interest in the most casual social game ever and use it as your comfort zone to start a conversation.
My good fellow GAFfer, there are many things I could go on or even giving you an advice but I already think I'm writing too much and I'm not sure if you agree or even read this so, best of luck. There's a time and place for everything and in my opinion when you state something like "While I have her there, it´s probably the perfect opportunity to show her how far gaming has come since Super Mario World." I just can't simply agree with that... at all, ever. There are many things that can go right on a first date, but also, many wrong, I wish you the best of luck and I hope one day you can find your soul mate.
EDIT: This is also a nice post:
stump sock
Member
Sims 4. Make characters for both you and her.
Tell her you want to see what your kids would be like.
Tell her you want to see what your kids would be like.
Games that have actually worked for me on 1st or 2nd dates:
Beautiful Katamari
Journey
Super Mario Bros. (they love that I still have my original NES)
NSMBU
Stick to simple/fun games that are tangibly enjoyed in 5-10 minute bursts. She's not really coming to your house to play games even if she says she is. That's just a pretense for getting to know you and being alone with you, especially in your apartment/home. Be respectful, and don't plan on it being a very long gaming session.
Oh, and NEVER ask her to give any game a chance if she isn't feeling it at first. Be super flexible and respectful in light of what she says about the game selection.
Beautiful Katamari
Journey
Super Mario Bros. (they love that I still have my original NES)
NSMBU
Stick to simple/fun games that are tangibly enjoyed in 5-10 minute bursts. She's not really coming to your house to play games even if she says she is. That's just a pretense for getting to know you and being alone with you, especially in your apartment/home. Be respectful, and don't plan on it being a very long gaming session.
Oh, and NEVER ask her to give any game a chance if she isn't feeling it at first. Be super flexible and respectful in light of what she says about the game selection.
soxinthebox
Member
Help GAF, I'm getting married next year and can't decide what console to bring with us to the hotel for our wedding night. FWIW I don't think I'd be able to get away with bringing more than two.
Cheers
Cheers
NeoGAF.Wait, so you have a date set up with plans to go back to your apartment and...you want to show her video games?
Freeman
Banned
None is clearly the right answer here.
But if you are really into spreading the gospel, maybe you should prepare a 30min presentation about how games have evolved in the last 15 years and finish it by offering her a selection of games that best illustrate where games are today. If she plays Candy Crush I think she is a good prospect, who knows, you might end up getting lucky an convincing her to get a PS4, WiiU or building her own PC.
Brilliant with a touch of insanity.
But if you are really into spreading the gospel, maybe you should prepare a 30min presentation about how games have evolved in the last 15 years and finish it by offering her a selection of games that best illustrate where games are today. If she plays Candy Crush I think she is a good prospect, who knows, you might end up getting lucky an convincing her to get a PS4, WiiU or building her own PC.
A dancing game is the only one that would have any chance of getting anywhere. I know a guy that had positive results inviting girls to play Dance Central whit him.
Brilliant with a touch of insanity.
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