*Rhaknar touches his head as he says it.. the only head he has and will ever touch*cant breakup when you are eternally alone
FactsKnow what follows breakup szn
Cuffin SZN
I'm to the point where I'm not being broken up with, I'm just losing the potential relationship that would eventually end. on purpose.
You haven't been listening. Been a thing since before I graduated high school. And that was 2009.I never heard of this until 3 days ago and suddenly I hear about it everywhere
maybe love isn't real and we're all just lying to ourselves to try and make ourselves happy.
Going through divorce here, found out the wife never loved me, got two kids (2, and a 11 month old) and shes in love with someone else, whos also married with kids.
maybe love isn't real and we're all just lying to ourselves to try and make ourselves happy.
Going through divorce here, found out the wife never loved me, got two kids (2, and a 11 month old) and shes in love with someone else, whos also married with kids.
maybe love isn't real and we're all just lying to ourselves to try and make ourselves happy.
Nah shoot ya shot playoffs are every damn dayFall/Winter is basically like the Shoot Ya Shot playoffs, just to add.
Well, it's easier than being as sad as you.
Op, had you not done it yourself, your girlfriend may have likely waited until the holiday season was over before saying anything. From what I've seen, a lot of people have a weird thing about breaking up during holidays and tough it out until spring.
Wait OP, you broke up with her cause u didn't trust her? Like you didn't even know if she really did go to a girls only trip but just assume she was doing something bad? Maybe she was telling the truth?
maybe love isn't real and we're all just lying to ourselves to try and make ourselves happy.
You dated her for 4 years and it's only been a few weeks. Your feelings are not out of the ordinary. Give it time.
Happiness is nothing.maybe love isn't real and we're all just lying to ourselves to try and make ourselves happy.
I'm going through a breakup myself.
I was a little blindsided by this as the first time we actually talked about any problems she saw in our relationship was a month ago, when she told me about a ton of issues all of a sudden and that she wasn't sure about our future. We took about a week to think on it and see where it would lead us, that ended up being the most stressful week of my life.
After a week, we agreed to work to make the relationship work. I did...but I felt like she never did, or did so in a half-hearted way. She kept going back to the issues (even while I was trying to work on all of them) and crying every other night...I could feel that I had lost her already, I just didn't know what caused it.
Two weeks ago, I decided I had enough of this status quo which was unworkable, and we decided to break up and that she would start looking for a place to live (she had moved into my condo with me so we were living together but I own the place).
Last Tuesday, I found out that my suspicions were right from the beginning and there was someone else (even though I'd asked before and she swore that wasn't the case), a girl from her workplace, and that she'd been lying to me and hiding that throughout the ordeal. I threw her out that same night.
I'm still devastated. This was an intense relationship, we met on international exchange two years ago and when it ended, she moved here to be with me. To think that things could deteriorate so fast and so dramatically hurts like a motherfucker. She was my first relationship too, so I've never dealt with anything similar, though I can see that some of her points about being less passionate of late were right on both sides. I'm just saddened by the fact that she didn't give us a chance to work through everything before bailing, and I feel betrayed by the lies too.
In the end it was a mutual breakup, but precipitated by her actions over the last month that disappointed me tremendously. We're both heartbroken somehow (I don't get how she can be, but it's obvious that that's the case)
I trust that things will get better though, it's been over a month since I've felt good about anything. The night is always darkest before dawn...
I'll miss her a ton, but I think it's best that way.
How did you find out just now if you don't mind me asking? I mean, after having two kids... damn.
Shit man, that's a rough one.
Three years ago my then GF and I were going to a rough patch, she recently was going out a lot with some friends who just like to party all days of the week, the kind of friends who told her all the time to dump me and live life and not to be tied to someone, I knew this because she always told me everything, we had a very healthy relationship or so I though so far.
This is a pretty healthy attitude to have, but damn if it doesn't perpetuate the notion of habitual dating taking over where people hop from one person to another like a job fair.
Very interesting to see such a social dynamic unfold at such speed with the advent of social media and online dating apps.
At least you've kissed a girlI uh...kissed a girl once though
Exact same thing happened to me. I never had a problem going out with her new friends. But she said it made her feel guilty and we should break up. I was upset because I hadn't done anything wrong and she choose going out and clubbing with her new friends over our relationship.
So about 2 months later she gets dropped by her new friends. I'm pretty sure it's because she was the new girl in the group and thought she was as good a friends as these other girls, probably shit talked one of them and they closed ranks on her and kicked her out.
She wanted to come back and have a fresh start. Dumb-ass naive fucker that I was took her back, only for her to do a similar thing to me 2 years later.
So I learned a life lesson. Never go back to an old relationship, it didn't work once and it's less likely to a second time.
maybe love isn't real and we're all just lying to ourselves to try and make ourselves happy.
Forever alooooooooooooooone.
Opposite for me tbh. My relationships usually start in fall and winter, and most end in spring.
Ain't no cuffin out this way tho, only bein a ho 😈
So, months go by and around christmas she tells me she's planning a trip to the beach with her friends, I tell her my schedule is pretty busy at work but I could make some space for a long weekend at the beach with her. Thats when she tells me that is a girl only trip,
Long story short, a few days later she comes to my house for christmas eve and she was a completely different person, I confront her and ask her if she cheated on me at the beach and she told me she would never do that to me, but she needed to think about our relationship.
I didn't sleep that night, I thought long and hard and decided to end it on christmas morning, she woke up, had breakfast and then I talked to her ended it, called a cab and never saw or talked to her again.
You see, she was a terrible liar and I knew something happened at the beach, maybe she fucked another guy, maybe she felt she liked someone else so I decided to just end it right there and there before going though potential weeks of drama.
Last November although it had been pretty obvious since May that she had lost feelings for me I refused to let go and she would never end it. It's for the best though, it was destined to fail.
Not foreign to this specifically in many respects. Take your time. Don't rush back into anything. You made the right decision. Her heartbreak is probably more guilt than anything.I'm going through a breakup myself.
I was a little blindsided by this as the first time we actually talked about any problems she saw in our relationship was a month ago, when she told me about a ton of issues all of a sudden and that she wasn't sure about our future. We took about a week to think on it and see where it would lead us, that ended up being the most stressful week of my life.
After a week, we agreed to work to make the relationship work. I did...but I felt like she never did, or did so in a half-hearted way. She kept going back to the issues (even while I was trying to work on all of them) and crying every other night...I could feel that I had lost her already, I just didn't know what caused it.
Two weeks ago, I decided I had enough of this status quo which was unworkable, and we decided to break up and that she would start looking for a place to live (she had moved into my condo with me so we were living together but I own the place).
Last Tuesday, I found out that my suspicions were right from the beginning and there was someone else (even though I'd asked before and she swore that wasn't the case), a girl from her workplace, and that she'd been lying to me and hiding that throughout the ordeal. I threw her out that same night.
I'm still devastated. This was an intense relationship, we met on international exchange two years ago and when it ended, she moved here to be with me. To think that things could deteriorate so fast and so dramatically hurts like a motherfucker. She was my first relationship too, so I've never dealt with anything similar, though I can see that some of her points about being less passionate of late were right on both sides. I'm just saddened by the fact that she didn't give us a chance to work through everything before bailing, and I feel betrayed by the lies too.
In the end it was a mutual breakup, but precipitated by her actions over the last month that disappointed me tremendously. We're both heartbroken somehow (I don't get how she can be, but it's obvious that that's the case)
I trust that things will get better though, it's been over a month since I've felt good about anything. The night is always darkest before dawn...
I'll miss her a ton, but I think it's best that way.