Looks like you are about to have an imaginary girlfriend.
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Looks like you are about to have an imaginary girlfriend.
Looks like you are about to have an imaginary girlfriend.
Looks like you are about to have an imaginary girlfriend.
I think that if you're an atheist and you think you should respect religion then you're a condescending prick.
Stick up for what you believe in, don't treat others like babies.
As an atheist, you were pretty inconsiderate and rude towards her beliefs.
Or, treat others how you'd want to be treated. OP (and yourself) probably wouldn't appreciate the reverse. A religious person going off on them about how they're going to rot in hell for being a non believer.
It's not treating others like babies. It's about not being a baby and letting others beliefs get to you.
I'd want to be treated with honesty. I would be extra insulted if I found out you think my beliefs are so shaky that you soften your blows to spare my feelings.
sounds like you really respect her beliefs
I'd want to be treated with honesty. I would be extra insulted if I found out you think my beliefs are so shaky that you soften your blows to spare my feelings.
"Hey honey! You know those deep personal convictions you hold dear that i obviously knew about before we got together? Well not only do I belive that they're complete fairy tale bullshit, but I'm going to explain to you how they're bullshit using only the most condescending words I can think of. But that's okay, becuase since your obviously stupid enough to fall for these convictions in the first place, I just know that after I'm done demeaning everything you hold dear, you're sure to stay with me!"
Much easier to be a dick to someone with religious beliefs, I agree.You shouldn't humour obvious delusions.
It is possible to behave honestly without being a condescending prick, though.
What OP said to his girlfriend wasn't honest, it was patronizing.
If you can't see that then maybe loosen the fedora a little bit, it's cutting off blood to your superior atheist brain
I think the OP treated his girlfriend like an idiot when he said that all to her.The exact opposite of what you said is true. He was honest. You're suggesting he should hide who he is to his gf, and treat her with kid gloves, like she's some sort of idiot.
That's the definition of patronizing.
Also, the fedora bit is getting a little trite.
What are you doing?
If you're dating a spiritual person, why would you make it a point to say that you think their God(s) ain't shit? Do you enjoy your penis at all?
Trust me, I know from experience; if she's the kind of person who's already decided on a Catholic wedding, picked out her local priest, and knows what private school they're going to grow up in, unless you're on the same page, it's not going to work.
I would bail immediately if my gf said she was planning on making kids.
Flee
So glad I never even dated a religious girl, in hindsight.
Since you are asking for advice, you shouldn't even try to save this. Your girlfriend thinks that anyone who isn't Catholic or religious has no morals, which means she isn't someone worth being with.