Spiritual_Chaos
Banned
So you want me to go out and publicly shame my former friends for missreading my signals. Even though they accepted my no?
What do you think about posting private nude pictures of girls online?
So you want me to go out and publicly shame my former friends for missreading my signals. Even though they accepted my no?
You shouldn't trust anyone involved.
So you want me to go out and publicly shame my former friends for missreading my signals. Even though they accepted my no?
where?
Someone just got banned for posting resources for abused women, wew
For all members that choose to stay here at GAF, please be aware of how you can help. Here are some good resources to turn to when you know of an abuse or assault situation.
Assaulted Women's Helpline
Neighbours, Friends and Families
Sexual assault is not hand eye coordination, it's not an accidental mistake like dropping a pencil, it doesn't take some kind of virtuous hero to not sexually assault and be against sexual assault and quite frankly the idea that it might is a clear indication of your idea of how hard it is to "control" these things that you conisder natural human behavior
I'm not defending EL or anyone who sexually harassed but holy shit am I sick and tired of all you perfect people. Oh I'm cognizant of this, I realize that, I know every PC way to behave in the book, and people need to burn if they are on board with this. It must be nice for most of you to be so perfect. To understand every social issue in depth and formed a strong opinion that then is projected on others.
I find this place is better most of the time to find issues to rage about then it is to enjoy discussing games. You people must be seriously taxing on those around you.
Sick of all these people posting crap about how they don't want to be here, if you don't want to be here just fuck off and chat elsewhere.
You're 100% are not understanding the purpose of the story and hashtag. It was about sharing experiences so others can open up. She posted it to her private facebook, and then her friends shared it out. She said in the waypoint interview she never intended for this to blow up into something more.
The alt-right is in fully force.
http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=1453956
...... did they get unbanned and the thread unlocked? am I just hallucinating at this point?
Why is NeoGAF the place to post that information - this is a video game forum.
As helpful as it can be, GAF shouldn't be the resource anyone comes to for that information.
How about you get out of this thread then?
I saw them get banned too...
We all make mistakes, everyone deserves a second chance
Why is NeoGAF the place to post that information - this is a video game forum.
As helpful as it can be, GAF shouldn't be the resource anyone comes to for that information.
Projecting a self righteous moral compass on the internet through a keyboard is easier than actually going out into the world and making a difference. Most of these extreme social justice advocates don't really give solutions. They just like to shout at what they see as a problem through their morally outraged perception.
I don't think you understand my post at all but go on continue to tell me how and what to rage at in every instance (you know don't pickup a hat in time because one person voice acting in it is a racist, or don't play this game because a woman is too scantily clad, etc etc). Of course I would never be for sexual assault. I'm talking about the overall tone in this place on every social issue.
Come on now Neogaf a gaming forum not a place for abused women to meet up. People on here still overreacting, genuinely maybe take a break from the internet.
This thread is fine I'm talking about the individual threads people keep making. I agree that there has to be complaints but I would rather it stay in one location.
I saw them get banned too...
Hrm they are not banned? Thread is not locked?http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=1453956
...... did they get unbanned and the thread unlocked? am I just hallucinating at this point?
Come on now Neogaf a gaming forum not a place for abused women to meet up. People on here still overreacting, genuinely maybe take a break from the internet.
Hrm they are not banned? Thread is not locked?
Fixed for you. Enjoy your echo chamber of white, male rightwing snowflakes.Come on now Neogaf a gaming forum not a safe place for women, abused or otherwise. People on here still overreacting, genuinely maybe take a break from the internet.
Citation needed.
I've been here since 2005. I've lurked here long before that. I guess GAF was sort of my safe space and I used it as a crutch in some ways too. Sorry to disappoint some people, but I'm not going anywhere.
GAF is GAF's users, and if the site can take a turn for the better then that's great and I'm all for it. I'll try to be a part of that change.
I'm also pretty ignorant, it takes me a while to figure stuff out. So as of now I'm riding this storm out for a bit to see what happens. I'm simply not going to knee jerk react to this ordeal. A portion of my life was invested here. If you feel betrayed or hurt by what has happened, and leaving is your next step, then you have my sympathy. I'm concerned, confused, a little torn, and anxious myself. I have my own thoughts, and beliefs until proven otherwise, on the matter.
In my opinion, If the majority here truly feel the owner isn't the right person to run the site, instead of shutting it down or jumping ship, why not demand a new owner? Or maybe an appointed overseer or something? I just find it odd so many people want to see gaf nuked over allegations that are just that, allegations.
So you want me to go out and publicly shame my former friends for missreading my signals. Even though they accepted my no?
That's my bad actually, you were responding to someone who said she was unstable and I misread it. Sorry about that.
To everyone suddenly asking why she left the door open if she didn't want Evilore on her ass:
Are we forgetting the fact that the woman was vomiting all over the place?
Gee, I know when I'm in physical distress, I act with perfect rationality.
Fuck out of here.
Make sure you take a ticket and fill out your complaint card on the table, please do not talk to the event organizers.
They were 100% banned and the thread was locked. Someone is back-peddling now realizing what they've started.
I'd love to see the moderation logs of what is going on....
As for the allegations, I dont know how to feel. I obviously dont want to minimize the victim but this is also one allegation, and Im not ready to pass full judgment until the dust settles.
Then you're contradicting yourself. Either he didn't do anything wrong and she is unstable as I've seen you argue before, or neither of them are unstable and it's fucked up to suggest that from either of them, at which point he is still accused of sexual assault from a sane, normal person with no reason to doubt her claim as she gets nothing from it.
Pick a side and stick to it.
MALKA NEVER SAID HE MISREAD THE SIGNALS!
All he said was that she's mentally unstable.
If he said he misread the signals it would be so much more honest.
Guess where all that discussion used to take place? Also why would you care where abused women meet up? Surely they have every right to meet up on a gaming forum?
At this rate all that will be left is Community Gaming OT section. I'm guessing by end of the week.
Whatever happened, his statement is shit. Should have just said I fucked up, misread the signals.
Then it would be no big deal ( or at least still something but not this. ).
I think he was agreeing with me that its sick of Malka to say shes mentally unstable. Think you got yoir posters twisted.
I would not blame Neogaf for doing it. You guys are still accusing Tyler Malka of wrongdoing even though the evidence clearly showing she never thought this was a big deal as she jumped into bed with him and had sex with him. Neogaf does want trolling to continue, don't blame them. When he truly does something evil talk about it.
Your crossfit box has so few single stall showers that you need to double up? Like, inches from one another? While one person is loudly vomiting? Who's jumpin' in the shower with the puking person?
We're not talking about some group shower built for multiple people here, that's nowhere near an equivalent to a fucking hotel shower. Come on man.
Fixed for you. Enjoy your echo chamber of white, male rightwing snowflakes.
Basically what I said earlier on, everyone needs to calm the fuck down. It's shitty that the Off-Topic forum is gone but someone being draconian on a forum doesn't make them automatically Hitler. In a world where real Nazis are showing up more and more saying that kind of shit just looks dumb.The Hitler and Stalin was just a methafor but if you wish to test someone's moral, give him power.
Not sure if people are overlooking this on purpose or they just don't get it. EL's own statements, made over the weekend and on this very thread, basically turned a small fire into a raging inferno.
Not just the owner. Baffeling amount of users who now openly advocate to disregard a possible victim of sexual assault, despite Evilore's demeanor and history, because they just want to talk about Games. Can you imagine this in the NeoGAF of two weeks ago?
MALKA NEVER SAID HE MISREAD THE SIGNALS!
All he said was that she's mentally unstable.
If he said he misread the signals it would be so much more honest.
Apologist.Come on now Neogaf a gaming forum not a place for abused women to meet up. People on here still overreacting, genuinely maybe take a break from the internet.