What do men of gaf think?
How's your personality though? If it's good enough then you're okay in my book regardless of muscle mass. Lol, I'm at a point in my life where a woman's physique isn't up the totem pole anymore as long as it isn't hitting any type of extreme....so take my opinion for what you will...
Now, where the issue may arise is the lack of interest between the two individuals. Weight lifting is a lifestyle choice. If you're dating someone who isn't intersted in weight lifting or strength building and that's the lifestyle you choose, then the two of you will have a lot of hard work ahead of you to accommodate each others' lifestyle.
I'm not saying it's not possible, I'm just saying it will probably take more work than most people care to put into a relationship.
I've personally never seen a functioning relationship between an average person and a health nut. In most cases, one will usually pull the other into their world ....either that or they fight it so hard they decide to move on.
-- just so you know where I'm coming from, I worked for a long time with a lady who strength trained. (note: she strength trained, she did not do any body building so she was very fit and had noticeable muscle on her that would make you look twice or thrice, but she was not overly vascular or muscle-y in the traditional grotesque way. I actually found her very attractive. Her muscle mass kind of looked like this image:
ANYWAY... She was always attracted to the typical effeminate "pretty boys" and her relationships always went through a lot of ups and downs regarding lifestyle choices. She eventually settled with someone who was also dedicated to strength training in his free time. They're happily married last time I checked. Granted I moved on from the job over a decade ago.
Good luck with your relationship TC. I hope you and your friend happiness because we all deserve a bit of it.