alright alright alright
Ill come help but you need to pay the airfare
I've been blowing money like crazy as of late.
Can someone here pay this guys way?
I need a fluffer.
alright alright alright
Ill come help but you need to pay the airfare
Please, kill this thread..
I met a woman in a career related event, and I started helping her with getting her career going. She already turned me down saying that she doesn't want a relationship until she has her career going, but I'm still helping her and being really good friends.
I might have set myself back by asking her to be in a relationship with me because she wondered, afterwards, why I am still helping her a lot. I told her that I would be happy for her if she found someone else as a boyfriend, and I'm not lying about it. I do feel like I put myself in the friend zone position.
However, we go out together a damn lot, about 3-5 times a week, sometimes to help her, but not strictly about that because she enjoys being with me and talking with me. I'm her best friend, and she's super comfortable with me. We even say "I love you" in a platonic friendship sense, and we even hold hands A LOT when we sit down and chat, but not down the street that would show we're in a relationship. She's super concerned about my feelings and everything that might make me feel depressed too.
Does it sound like I'm forever friend zoned? We've been together for 3 months, and it's only getting stronger, it feels like. I like to dwell on the possibility that she wants to be with me when we get her career going, but I needed to see what others think.
Please, kill this thread..
The guy's premise is flawed. Being willing to hook up with a friend doesn't mean you can't just be friends. Should guys only be friends with women they think are ugly?
Hey bb how u doin?Look if anyone wants to slither into the dms, I have tons of anime art that I can trade for pics.
Do not dm me
lol this is another one that has to be fake
Look if anyone wants to slither into the dms, I have tons of anime art that I can trade for pics.
Do not dm me
Please, kill this thread..
Hey bb how u doin?
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I hope you like pics of alpacas
How bad is it to have sex with the person your friend's been "friendzoned" by?
How bad is it to have sex with the person your friend's been "friendzoned" by?
You say "I love you" to each other?
What is dead may never die
I agree
LOL What the hell is this still doing on first page.
Alright, here's the update. I listened to the GOOD advice about asking her again. I had the chance to as we went out for dinner after working with her most of the afternoon. I brought up the time I asked her out and asked if her feelings changed.
She said yes. She never thought about relationships seriously until she felt my dedication towards helping her with her life. She got to know me a lot better since she turned me down, and she wants me to be in a relationship, however, she doesn't feel confident in herself when it comes to a relationship where we would live with each other if she isn't making good income.
I told her that her money doesn't matter me, and that I'm going to help her no matter what kind of relationship we're in. She's still not comfortable being unable to share in the expenses, but she really likes our time together because it's giving her a lot of confidence and morale to work hard, so I told her that we can stay the course and keep doing what we're doing.
I guess I shouldn't say I'm not interested in a relationship with her, rather I should just say I stopped thinking about it in order to focus on helping her. Seems like our relationship built anyway, and I'm pretty happy with how things are right now. I don't think asking really made any difference, but it was nice to know.
Anyway, you funny gaffers with some good advice and mostly bad advice, you all made an interesting thread out of this situation. Keep it up.
You're "friend" will prolly still have feelings for that woman.
I've been friend zoned by a couple women who say this and almost act relationshipy with snuggling on the couch and saying very affectionate things. Yet it every time a date is proposed it's "no don't make it awkward."
I was friendzoned(FZ), told the girl how I felt, she said she didn't feel the same way.
So I started dating another girl and the FZ girl stopped talking to me... :|
"friendzoned(FZ)"
y tho?
TC sacrificed himself so that the doorway to truth might open
Ftfy
Same thing. Topic creator/original poster.TC...? You mean OP?
TC...? You mean OP?
I wouldn't mind being friendzoned, I have no female friends
Boy, does the OP know a girl for you.I wouldn't mind being friendzoned, I have no female friends
I wouldn't mind being friendzoned, I have no female friends
lol What does she need so much help with?LOL What the hell is this still doing on first page.
Alright, here's the update. I listened to the GOOD advice about asking her again. I had the chance to as we went out for dinner after working with her most of the afternoon. I brought up the time I asked her out and asked if her feelings changed.
She said yes. She never thought about relationships seriously until she felt my dedication towards helping her with her life. She got to know me a lot better since she turned me down, and she wants me to be in a relationship, however, she doesn't feel confident in herself when it comes to a relationship where we would live with each other if she isn't making good income.
I told her that her money doesn't matter me, and that I'm going to help her no matter what kind of relationship we're in. She's still not comfortable being unable to share in the expenses, but she really likes our time together because it's giving her a lot of confidence and morale to work hard, so I told her that we can stay the course and keep doing what we're doing.
I guess I shouldn't say I'm not interested in a relationship with her, rather I should just say I stopped thinking about it in order to focus on helping her. Seems like our relationship built anyway, and I'm pretty happy with how things are right now. I don't think asking really made any difference, but it was nice to know.
Anyway, you funny gaffers with some good advice and mostly bad advice, you all made an interesting thread out of this situation. Keep it up.
Imagine a boner, imagine a boner that couldn't be satisfied. Friendzoned.
I...find this really hard to believe, and I was the first person to say I believed Ashodin would succeed in his love quest. You went from no relationship and her turning you down to talking about how she's not confident she could be an equal contributor when you live together? Who goes from zero to married like that? Besides Ashodin, I mean. It just reads like some weird internal fantasy where you're some kind of pedestal-ed, paternal figure that she says she's not worthy of. Sorry if I'm doing you wrong, OP, but it just all reads false.
"friendzoned(FZ)"
Why is there a need for an acronym for this?
The ultimate has gotta be this:
LOL What the hell is this still doing on first page.
Alright, here's the update. I listened to the GOOD advice about asking her again. I had the chance to as we went out for dinner after working with her most of the afternoon. I brought up the time I asked her out and asked if her feelings changed.
She said yes. She never thought about relationships seriously until she felt my dedication towards helping her with her life. She got to know me a lot better since she turned me down, and she wants me to be in a relationship, however, she doesn't feel confident in herself when it comes to a relationship where we would live with each other if she isn't making good income.
I told her that her money doesn't matter me, and that I'm going to help her no matter what kind of relationship we're in. She's still not comfortable being unable to share in the expenses, but she really likes our time together because it's giving her a lot of confidence and morale to work hard, so I told her that we can stay the course and keep doing what we're doing.
I guess I shouldn't say I'm not interested in a relationship with her, rather I should just say I stopped thinking about it in order to focus on helping her. Seems like our relationship built anyway, and I'm pretty happy with how things are right now. I don't think asking really made any difference, but it was nice to know.
Anyway, you funny gaffers with some good advice and mostly bad advice, you all made an interesting thread out of this situation. Keep it up.
You are purposefully ignorant to what people were saying. Please, try not to seem so arrogant.LOL What the hell is this still doing on first page.
Alright, here's the update. I listened to the GOOD advice about asking her again. I had the chance to as we went out for dinner after working with her most of the afternoon. I brought up the time I asked her out and asked if her feelings changed.
She said yes. She never thought about relationships seriously until she felt my dedication towards helping her with her life. She got to know me a lot better since she turned me down, and she wants me to be in a relationship, however, she doesn't feel confident in herself when it comes to a relationship where we would live with each other if she isn't making good income.
I told her that her money doesn't matter me, and that I'm going to help her no matter what kind of relationship we're in. She's still not comfortable being unable to share in the expenses, but she really likes our time together because it's giving her a lot of confidence and morale to work hard, so I told her that we can stay the course and keep doing what we're doing.
I guess I shouldn't say I'm not interested in a relationship with her, rather I should just say I stopped thinking about it in order to focus on helping her. Seems like our relationship built anyway, and I'm pretty happy with how things are right now. I don't think asking really made any difference, but it was nice to know.
Anyway, you funny gaffers with some good advice and mostly bad advice, you all made an interesting thread out of this situation. Keep it up.
Oh myyy.... maximum cringe
I've never even heard of "friendship-engaged." Is this a thing??
A person can be initially attracted to you and interested in pursuing it further and still put you in the "friend zone".
Matter of fact, you can go on a date and get "friend zoned" afterwards. I've seen this happen a lot.